I am a 28 year old mother of three amazing children. (Bella 3 ,Noah 18 months, Evan 6.) But now I have finished having my children and I will not be breast feeding anymore my body is not the way I would like it to be. I have had so many people tell me I should be proud of my body because of what I have achieved. But I am just not So I decided to get breast implants. I think my one worry is what my friends will think of me or when Bella gets older what will she think of me. So if there is anyone out there that has had breast implants or other cosmedic changes to there bodies after children or before please let me know how you felt and why. Also happy for people to comment if they disagree with cosmedic changes.

Posted anonymously, 3rd June 2015

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  • It is such an individual decision and I would suggest maybe talking with people that have undergone a procedure. Maybe there are groups? Also research a lot before making your decision. Knowledge is the key to making a choice that is right for you.


  • oh just to add, lol if you get new boobs you will need a new wardrobe!


  • I have been with my husband for 12 years and he always said to do what I feels best.Thank you so much for your comments it has mad me feel so much better about getting them :)


  • Do what makes you feel good! I don’t think your daughter would disrespect you for it (I also guess if you are going for natural or out there boobs). As long as you are doing it for yourself and noone else and it makes you happy then go for it!


  • I’m inclined to think maybe you should wait a bit longer – presumably you stopped feeding very recently. I didn’t feel like my body settled for about 12 months after I finished feeding.


  • at the end of the day, it comes down to you. I think that if you are not happy with your breasts, change them. Make sure, like 100% sure that this is what you want. They are very expensive plus there will be a lot of downtime due to recovery. I think that if you get a good surgeon who will give you the right sized breasts for your body shape, then that is fine. Don’t go redic big! As for your daughter, i don’t think that it will be a big deal in the future. It is a very fine line to try to be the role model for loving your body and accepting what you have and then trying to explain that a little improvement is also ok. I think that you have to do this for your own self confidence but don’t do it to keep a guy. Don’t worry about what other people will say. It is your decision and if they are true friends ,they will support you. You have to be comfortable in the skin that you are.

    I haven’t had work done.

    • A great and well though out answer MOM94125.


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