i am sad for you i hope she comes around soon no body should feel bad on christmas

Hope your situation has sorted itself out by now… But if it hasn’t, don’t give up!! Life is far too short to not talk to family. Your daughter should consider herself lucky to have a mum that wants to be in her life!! I truly hope things are ok now…

daughters love

I think you need to sit down and have a good think about the situation. Something must have happened for her to turn her back. At the moment, I haven’t spoken to my mum since I rang HER for MY birthday to thank her for my card. She sent me a quick happy birthday text :,( That was it. She doesn’t even have to pay her own phone bill, yet she still won’t ring me. So I decided to,stop contacting her, just to see how long it would be before she contacted me. Over 3 months and counting. She’s probably sitting wondering why she hasn’t heard from me…..all she has to do is call to find out :,(

great story

I don’t even get a response from a Christmas card

Wow in less you know what you have done how can you fix it. Maybe write her a letter and explain things from your point

it really hurt after all we do for them my son has done the same at times and taken his fathers side but they never really know the truth and I wont be nagging his father he will one day see the person he is, I must say I had all 3 sons with me for Christmas day but he did say our family is crap and not to talk about it. merry Christmas to you im sure she will come around might just have her own problems

Thank you for your kind words and comments

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 29 Dec 2014 , 6:46 pm

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  Wishing you well for the New Year!

Sorry to hear that you had sadness on Christmas Day; hope it works out for you.

I’m so sorry to hear that you had this burden and worry on Christmas Day.

I’m sorry to hear that your daughter has seen fit to cut you out of her life&altho’ I cant tell you why or what to do about her behaviour I can recommend that you look at the past&stash it in the past. You can only do something about your behaviour&to be honest, I think its a case of ‘Moms always been there&I can treat her any way I want&she will come back for more’…Don’t. Just think to yourself ‘If I wont put up with anymore of this type of behaviour because I deserve better’ then your daughter will treat you better…eventually (when she matures). The fact that you say ‘I don’t know what Ive done’ says that you always blame yourself for all problems, but you have an obligation to yourself&that is to see that this behaviour is unacceptable from your daughter (you are after all her mother)&to let her come to that conclusion too! Good luck in the future&please, go out, join some clubs, interact with other mothers&give yourself lots of love…because you deserve it! Cheers JNK