so i lost my cousin 3 years ago on the 27th of august,
he was my best friend, my everything. he was the most important person in my life.
he died when i was 8 weeks pregnant with my daughter so he found out before he died, but it hurts that he never got to meet her…
and now im around 6 weeks pregnant with my second and i cant even talk to him and tell him. it hurts so much

i turned 21 last year, and i couldnt enjoy my birthday. i couldnt work out why, until recently. my cousin died at the age of 20, 10 days before his 21st, and he was always older than me, it wasnt fair that i reached 21 but he didnt =(

sorry i just had to get it off my chest.

Posted by mom58527, 6th October 2014

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  • Hopefully members of your family have some photos the can be put in an album you cal all look at from time to time. Sometimes being able to visit a deceased person’s “resting place” can bring you some peace if you are able to do that. It can take a long, long time to recover from the tragic death of a relative or friend at such a young age


  • It is shit that we all have to die – and some that we love so much, that die so young… Hey, you celebrate your life and that of your kids every darn day in honour of his memory…. Bless xx


  • I am so sorry for your loss. I;m sure that your children will grow up listening to stories of how great he was.


  • nice story to have a read


  • I don’t think it’s going to get easier
    It’s been 3 years and it still hurts as it did on the first day


  • He’s gone but not forgotten.


  • I’m so sorry. I know it hurts, and it probably always will. But it should get easier to handle, with time.


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