You need to look carefully why you feel this way – is it a feeling against all men? or this one in particular? If it is general then it is likely to become a problem for you and your daughter.

if it doesn’t feel right trust your feeling and don’t ever leave her there must be a reason you feel this way. not worth it your daughter must be your only concern

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I think you should trust your instincts and do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Dont question your own feelings.

I think as a mother your worries are valued. Would rather come off as possibly offensive than put my child in a at-risk situation, regardless of whether its an imagined one. If it’s a gut instinct thing for yourself I can only highly recommend going with it, I’ve mostly come-a-cropper when I’ve disregarded my gut instincts.
It’s a hard situation to be in but I’m sure you’ll keep making the choices that are best for your child.

I think you need to sit down and work out if they are excessive concerns or you have read to many horror stories. If you think the risk is real then it is time to have a hard chat with your boyfriend, if you work out you have been reading to many bad things about men and children I think again you need to let your boyfriend know what is going on in your head before it causes issues between you both

I think if you have these kind of feelings towards him i wouldnt of let him move in in the first place you should of been honest and upfront with your boyfriend, and told him the way you feel about his brother when hes with your daughter.

From what you’ve said, it sounds excessive… But if you have any reason to feel uneasy about him, I’d continue to be careful. Don’t let yourself be scared by what you read if that’s the sole basis of your concern, though.