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It’s nearly April the 8 th my birthday .. Wow I will be 54. Time to move forward .
I asked my sister Margaret for the sandstone back. She has said no . And if I step foot on her property. She will have me arrested .. not yours it’s mum,s and you only have the use of it till you die . Then spilt between my other two sisters .. If the sand stone makes her happy keep it .. Big being a thief yes a thief makes her happy keep it .., she told me to prove I bought it for mum..
Well I cannot now ..
But my sister has had breast cancer and I am not going to upset her anymore than she is ,,,she lives in a very small country town called Delegate down on the Victorian boarder .. And life for her would be very lonely she does not make friends easy. And now mum is gone she would have no one ..
So if this really makes her happy. Choke on it ..
Yes choke .. I,m bitter it was mine
And it’s always the same.
Do not upset your sister let her have it ..
But now I have done this. Do not aske me for anything ever again the answer is no …
I have distanced my self from my sisters. I really want nothing to do with them
They thought more about the money but they do not have it.
As the will read Margaret could stay in the house till she died then the house is spilt between my sister Kathy Hiskins And Judith Miller . I have one sister in Exmouth I have not heard from since my father funeral 15 years ago and she never cared for my parents anyway .. And a sister on the Central Coast that works in some RSL club up there her hubby works on the railway they have a beautiful show home and money has been there life not family as such ..
I am blessed I have a beautiful family. Live in a high rise at campbeltown New South wales. It looks over the show ground ..
The last time the circus was here the grand kids could here the lions of a night in bed ..
Made new friends .. We moved last oct 2014. Mum died Peter changed his job .. Laying in bed this was all for a reason . It’s a new chapter in my life ..
My hubby rolled over in bed. And he said for what we have been through I love you .. I know your hurt. But I cannot fix it. But I love you remember that ..,
We do not need anything they have ..
If you want it I will replace it for you ..
But Werris creek railway have a memory foot path with rail works names on the stepping stone why not do that for dad ..,so that what we are looking into so yes he will have a marker..but my mother never will but that’s what she wanted .. She never gave dad what he wanted. And she did die a very painful death ..
It makes you wonder why ..
Maybe she was just filled with so much hatred and could not see past it .. I have made appointment at the dr,s to go see someone ..and have a chat ..,
But life needs to go.
And not just go. ,,,, you need to be happy you need to smile. You need to smell the sunshine ..
You need to want to get up of a morning and have something to live for .. Margaret has not got that
I have started to feel sorry for her
No one to love
No man no kids no grandkids
No sisters close no aunts or uncles no one
Anyone that has tried to help she has push away .
My aunt said my mother cut me out of the will as I was always fighting with her
I had not spoken to my mother in12 years or more not one phone call not one letter
So how was I fighting with her
Mum and me had words and things where said on both sides
No one would say sorry and now it’s too late
But now she is gone. She set out to hurt me ..
I am not sorry
I am not sorry she died
It was her time..
The same as when it’s my time
I hope someone loves me enough to be there to hold my hand when I take my last breath. Not on my own like no one cares ..


Posted by liz007, 31st March 2015


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  • I think I would prefer to go on my own, all by myself. I think why would I want to subject my loved ones to seeing me die? It’s a lasting memory and I would prefer they have happier lasting memories.

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  • this story is good

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  • You share a birthday with my newest daughter in law, a lovely girl that has made my son so very happy & has produced our 2nd gorgeous grandson.
    Liz you sound like you have a loving family of your own to make you feel happy so my wish for you is to move on from your past pain & enjoy what makes you feel so blessed. Happy Birthday for the 8th.


    • Thank you. It’s a new start. You do not miss what you never had,,,
      But it hurts to know what she did to my dad ..
      Why I ask
      The answer. We will never know ..
      She really did not love me ..
      But I have a hubby that loves me
      And children and grand children
      And she wanted what I had ,
      A close family but she never put in the hard work it takes to
      Keep a family together through the rough patches ..
      You need to know it makes you stronger no tears you apart ..
      Love is a strange thing it’s not gifts and saying I love you .
      It’s caring sharing trusting being there for the other person….

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