My partner left me 3 months ago not bad enough we have a 2 yr old together so im left with a broken heart and a babie great. ive been terrible at times and other times im like no man is going to ever hurt me again. Anyway he comes and sees our baby for his bday on the wkend and wants to get back together because he says seeing me and his son he realises how much he misses us and loves us. I love him and want to give it another go my heart says try my heads says no way. What would you do this is not the first time he has left me but it has been the longest. we have lots of problems like children from other partners, him living in my home, work so far away.

Posted anonymously, 12th October 2014

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  • 3 months singe


  • I think if it were me i would give him another try you never know he may of just let things get on top of him, like you say you have things going on and kids from previous relationships maybe he just didnt know how to deal with it all and the only thing he knew to do was walk away.
    I would sit him down tho and say this would be his last and only chance and you need to be honest and upfront with each other and that you need to talk everything through.


  • It sounds like you want to try and make it work so you should follow your heart. I would make him wait until you are ready to have him back, I would let him know you are very cautious and really make him win you back. If you don’t feel he’s making enough effort then you are probably better off without him.


  • As a woman, Id do what my heart AND BRAIN tells me. Im so sorry for this situation. It sounds like you want to be with him though, follow YOUR heart x


  • You poor thing. I’ve never been through what your going through but my sister has and is, she’s taken this guy back 3 times and now they have 2 kids together but it seems like he is always going to go back an forth. I told her to not take him back and its not fair on her and their two baby body but she does. Its entirely up to you what you do, be strong for yourself and your baby. If I was in your shoes I wouldn’t take him back. Everyone is different. Good luck.


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