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Hi I had my daughter 10 months ago I also have 3 boy that are school age.

I don’t like leaving my daughter with anyone even her father I feel as if she is safer with me even though there has never been any worry but I don’t trust anyone with her. I live my life around her and sometimes I feel like I’m leaving my other children out I don’t mean to but my boys have been mucking up since I have has her they think I don’t care about them but I really do I love them more then anything.

Please help what should I do. I have anxiety and depression as well

Posted by kelly laundess, 6th December 2013

7 Comments

- - 191joannes said
  - 08 Feb 2015
    9:08 am
Go see your gp

- - mom63821 said
  - 25 Aug 2014
    1:26 pm
I hope the GP has been able to help you. Having a girl after 3 boys I guess can be daunting, but remember your boys need there Mum time too.

- - aussiemum said
  - 06 Apr 2014
    6:48 am
It definitely sounds as though you have the presence of mind to recognise that there may be a problem. I’d definitely talk to a professional about it and well done in being brave enough to talk about it.

- - yyon4699 said
  - 31 Mar 2014
    4:47 pm
I hope you get some support from a professional just to talk things thru.

- - suzmuzz said
  - 09 Dec 2013
    10:24 pm
Yes, talk to your GP as a start and think about seeing a counsellor. The first step is recognising that you need help. A counsellor can help with strategies for your anxiety.

- - sanjipanj said
  - 06 Dec 2013
    3:00 pm
Sometimes we do baby the youngest, I fell into this trap. I would visit your GP hun ESP with the depression & anxiety. Sounds like you need some support
- mom57522 replied
  
  09 Jan 2015 , 7:43 pm
  Support, guidance, and a friend to listen.