Hi im tahlia,im 21 with a 4 year old son :) the hardest day of my life was the day i had to abort my pregnancy because of my own stupid choices. I had been drugs and oing through a really bad depression. I lost 43kgs in 2 months and was so weak i could barely walk. I was so sick but had no idea that i was pregnant :( i took a home pregnancy test which came back as positive then i went and got a blood test which confirmes it. I had an ultrasound following day and was 8 wks 3 days pregnant and bub was only 1.3cm long. I broke down. What had i done to my poor little angel to fullfill my own selfish needs. What was i goi by tk do :( i had to book an abortion for 2 weeks later and walking into that hospital at 10 wks 4 days to abort my own child because of my mistakez wha

Posted by tahliajadee, 16th October 2013

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  • Hi Tahlia, I hope you got the help you desperately needed. We all make mistakes in our lives we later regret. You have acknowledged yours and writing about was a good step towards recovery. I know a lady who got pregnant after 3 attempts via IVF and continued to chain smoke cigarettes. Her baby didn’t grow either and she was advised her unborn baby had no hope of doing so. She made the same decision, only to discover the foetus had died in that time anyway. I hope by now you have succeeded in having a healthy baby if that was you desired.


  • Dear Tahlia,

    I feel for you what you have been through, but dont let the past crush you, take a step forward and go and get counselling, and join some kind of help group, there is no reason why this needs to happen to you again. Yes you made some wrong choices but you dont want that to happen again by the way you speak. My prayers are with you as you are obviously a very affectionate person. God bless.


  • Very sad story, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I am hoping you are doing a lot better now.


  • Sorry to hear about your loss :( Its great your getting help! I wish you all the luck :)


  • Sorry for your loss. The most important thing is that you get help for you depression and addictions. Talk to your GP about setting up a mental health plan, and look into drug counseling available in your area. Good luck with things :)


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