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I wrote a story about my mother dying and she left me nothing , except to be given back any gifts I had given her ,well my sister Margaret Quinn. Would not give me anything back in fact told me after probation had past .. I was angry I was really upset ..but now well life has move on . If it makes her happy to be like this fine keep it .
It was never worth the drama. What a sandstone bench a sand stone bird bath .. My sister wants everything and my parents all said let her had it or she will scream.. Well she is a grown woman now 52 in fact and she still screams .. I feel sorry for her . She lives in a really hick town that’s dying ,you have to go 27 km to buy you groceries and for the chemist and the dr . Over 200 km for a hospital that can treat you. Yes she lives down in Delegate on the vic boarder .. It’s sad no real friends mums gone. No one visits her . And she makes sure no one is welcome .. It’s really sad . She is always scared someone wants something of her ., I had not spoken to my mother in year we had words and neither one of us would say sorry it was both our faults but she told people it was my fault .. Well mum was alive it was her and Margaret. Well now she is on her own.. My sister Kathy who live in Exmouth calls her all they talk on Facebook .. But that’s it ..mum left Margaret the everything and that’s fine .. Margaret has one daughter Sonkia who is 23 now Margaret was fighting breast cancer and having to go to Canberra. Her daughter did not go near her once .. My sister jJudy kept me up to date .. She was saying she is really concerned for my sister.. Mental welfare . I sad okay your concern go and visit her … Oh no. I have to work .. I sad you could have a few days off . No no no I do not want any part of it or get involved I sad now you know how I feel . Margaret told me . Do not come your not welcome you are getting nothing mum told me your nothing but trouble ..oh dear . What do you do .
Well this what I have decided to do .
Stay away. Move on with my life .
Enjoy my grand children
Love my kids even though they have grown.
My daughter has just had to move back with us and her two girls … So really enjoying the girls.
Daddy left them for a older lady that has lot and lots of money but hates kids ..
Daddy sends 40 a month .
Kiera is speacil needs she is authisic and was born with no bottom so she has no control over her bowel that does not work very well. So at four is still in nappies . But both girls are really happy. Enjoy school and enjoy living with nanny and poppy
So my life is good. It is hard to believe my mother is gone . I did not speak to her for over ten years .. She is dead her ashes gone to the wind but I did not get closer .
So some days I think of her but I do not have good memories my mother was very selfish and very spiteful . She dye yes but she made sure all of us girls did not speak to each other . The trouble she cause was unreal..
She is better off where she is . I have three sisters that are grown woman and we all have our own life’s now I hope there all happy. ..for Margaret. She can sit in her house in the middle of no where we her small town dying around her .. Believing what she wants .
But my life is richer for I have a awesome hubby who I love to the moon and back. A beautiful daughter that has moved I with us …and two grand daughters. My life is complete if I died tomorrow I am happy .. I do not need the negativity in my life anymore .. There is worst things gapping in the world .. I do not need anyone that does not love ME for who I am . And I do not need anything of any one as my hubby provides for me…. He takes care of me and I take care of him . So we can walk with our heads held high and be proud of who we have become .. My dad would of been so proud of me .


Posted by liz007, 30th September 2015


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  • yeah it can be so hard to cut those ties even when you will be better off for it.

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  • What a great read. I too have had to turn my back on family members for similar reasons. They decided they had things more important to them then I was…..so bad luck to them!

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  • Negativity is toxic, and I’m glad you have been able to take something positive from all of this and surround yourself with positivity

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  • You sound like you’re finding a good mental place for yourself.

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  • Thanks for sharing your story.

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  • Thank you everyone

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  • Thanks you for sharing your very personal story with Mums on this site.

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  • Thanks for sharing your story.

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  • It’s my story part of my life and I am truly very happy. I miss my dad but life is good

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