Well, my story started about 10 years ago when I thought I met the man of my dreams, my forever partner. I thought I was going to have the fairy tale we all dream about when being little, but nope I got the monster flick.
He started out to be loving, caring and protective. We dated for about 5 years prior to our first born. Then everything changed. At this point in time he developed a bad drug habbit, and was abusive towards me. Since I have no family here, (being from Poland) I stayed as I thought he would change and maybe grow up, and stop smoking the “ICE”.
Well he stopped for about a year and then I fell pregnant again. But this time I was stronger and I was not going to allow to be treated like nothing. So when he came at me last, I knew I needed to get out as i didn’t want my daughter to think thats the type of man you marry and I did not want my son to grow up to be just like him. So I fled…he went to work and i moved us out. It was so good to be out and to be able to breathe freely for the first time in years.
I have been away from him now for almost 4 years, my children know he’s their dad but they really dont know him. He does not pay child support, he does not see his children. And the best part was I put over $70,000.00 of his debt into my name due to his treats and violence, and now im stuck with the bill.
I can not complaim too much, as we have our house (mortgaged) we have a car, we have eveything we need to live, we may not have all the luxuries but we are doing fine as long as we are together. I work my butt off to support my children to show them that we work hard in life to get what we want. The only thing that sucks, is when i should be recieving a child support check, I have to pay my ex’s debt. So thats the short story of my life so far. Advice NEVER take on another mans debt!
Posted by kash927, 4th July 2013