Well what a year. … Twins 31. Boys well men now. Both have Crohns … Mat at the being of the year had a heap of blood in his stool as he has Crohns dr said its okay… After him visiting and speaking to us ,we were not happy. Off to our dr… Mat not happy we were not apply .. Mathew thought we were telling him what to do , and we all found it quite confronting … Mat has bowel cancer they came out and told us . If we do not operate he might not see the year out .. I hit the floor. . My hubby using a paint scrapper , scrapped me up. Okay. Operation over. We come through that. Wow. He will start chemo the ray. Will need blood transfusions. Omg… He moved home for seven months until he was well enough to look after himself again.. Oh it was not fun,,, mat was on his way home from hospital and a car ran a red light. Oops there goes the commodore. Oh dear at was shook up. … Bugger. We are in bed. And there was a heavy knock at the front door … Looking at the clock it was after two am. Wow. Getting out of bed knocking again. Yeah okay keep your hair on. .. Mat was staying at a friends place I thought he must of decide to come home and left his house keys .. So I open the front door… Hair standing on end tities down near my waste omg not a good look. .my eyes hanging lower than the boobs. . It’s the police… Mrs Gully. Yes maybe if its not going to cost me anything and no ones dead says me… No but we need to speak with you and your husband. He is at work… Okay so they come in… Your son Martin has been rush to Liverpool hospital. They tried to ring you but could not get through .. No I pulled my phone I had a really bad head ache and I was not feeling great.. Okay well your son. Got sick on the way home from work. Okay we can take you to Liverpool hospital. You are required to go there .. Oh okay I need to get dressed .. They waited very nice in the back of a police car off I go. .. Get to the hospital. And after about thirty mins find Martin is up having a major operation he has a blockage and a twist in his bowel. .. So there am I sitting on my own having a huge cry. No tissues. Omg what a mess.. It’s now 5.45 am I ring my hubby before he finishes work and he says wow your up early ,yeah the I inform him where I am… Shit shit shit he says down the phone … The plan is I will stay. He will go home get some sleep when he wakes I will go home… Well at ten am mat and hubby arrive. .. Marty is in ICU doing really well have a scare running the whole length down his tummy to his (well) yeah. And a bag now… Okay he is going to be fine … Home I go and crawl into bed and have another good old fashion cry…….. Five months later. Marty goes in to have his bag reversed. He is owing great… His twin goes to pick him up from hospital Mat is driving Marty,s car. And a car runs a red light again omg there goes Mary’s car… Both my boys this year have new remodel butts. And both have new cars. That’s what you get with iden twins …

IF we did not laugh we would sit in a corner and dribble … Okay I have ad some great high lights. Both my boys are well now and back at work ..,I have met Fast ED thanks to mouth of mums and met Nikki which was a bigger treat for me..I have three beautiful grand children. I have a hubby that adores me and I love him.. We have very little family. As we come from very big families we are both the black sheep.. It’s all good dirt does not show on the black sheep… We are so busy with our own family we do not have time to worry about minor. Things… We are still visiting the children’s hospital with our grand daughter while all the above is going on ., has she was born with some really not nice issues which ave been address and she finished the year o. A high note.. So it been twelve months since all this started. … The Christmas tree is up the pace is decorated. The present are brought and wrapped even some of my meats are in the freezer… The drinks are all brought and in the back fridge… Cards are wrote out and a out to be posted … Live is good we all made it through another year… So smile be happy we can come out the other side of this… They say life throws things at the strong to make us stronger. I can tell you I did not feel very strong and I had my moments… The photo is off mat

Posted by liz007, 19th November 2013

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  • Wow that is a huge year for you!! Things do make us stronger, even though we feel like breaking at times. All the best for next year and hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas


  • I hope things have gotten better for your family.


  • i don’t know what happened to the photo


  • Whoa, what a truly terrible year, I hope this new year is a much better one for you and your family. God bless you all.


  • poor thing going through so much ..


  • Wow you have been through so much and I love the fact you are so positive you are truly an inspiration to me :)


  • i very much hope that next year brings you all the health and happiness in the world. i wish you and your family all the best xx


  • oh my what a year for your family. I hope the next year is much less eventful for you all. sending you love xxx


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