My sister has been with her boyfriend for 3 years and they have a child together but for the whole time I’ve known him all he does is treat her like rubbish.
For what I have seen and things she has told me about that has happened behind closed doors is disgusting and I’m getting to the point where I’m either going to say something to him myself or im even tempted to let the authorities know about him.
Im also getting to the point where I don’t want to hear about anything new he has said or done and he is no longer welcome in my home.
He is the type of man that is very sneaky and sly, he lies to my sister all the time, he takes her last bit of money she has for the week to buy things he doesn’t need, she takes his phone everywhere and I mean everywhere he goes and it’s always on silent, he has his phone bills and bank statements sent to his parents house so my sister can’t read them. He spends a lot of time in the garage with the doors locked and the list just goes on and on.
He has also told my sister that she is not allowed to come to my house because he thinks i will brainwash her and tell her to leave him (which I tell her all the time anyway) it’s just driving me nuts.
The only reason she hasn’t left him already is because they have a baby together and my sister and I both know what it’s like growing up in a broken home.
I just wish he would treat her better and get along with the family because I dont know how much more I can handle. I just hate him so much it makes me sick.
Posted anonymously, 20th February 2015