I had the same problem
My husband used to work day and night.
Go to office the moment he woke up and come home around midnight so never had time for the lill one.
On weekends i used to hope for family time but well his family always seemed to have some emergency that needed him and in his culture he cant really say no or not go to them so i raised our son pretty much on my own and when he was home at night often i used to be soo tired that romance was the last thing on my mind.
Now im pregnant again and we have moved far from his previous job and his family so im soo very happy but yeah it did took 4 years to come this far.
I wish u all the best for the future
Posted by sraluca, 26th April 2013