It is with a broken heart for those who have been following what has been going on. My Mother lost her fight and died on Thursday afternoon but she got her wish to pass at home in her own bed and was asleep and no pain.
We are all feeling very lost with out her and are hearts are hurting. She was a very loving person who had an open door and open arms policy for those who needed it and has many more adopted Grandchildren than real ones. We have a hard and busy time ahead but she was not alone and had us who loved her deeply with her. I know she has gone to be with my Dad who has been gone for 16 years this year and Mum never stopped loving him so I know they have now been able to start there for ever after together. I am the person I am to day because of her the Mother and Grand Mother I am also because of her. I just fell lost and empty and so do the rest. My Daughter is taking it hard as she has lived and looked after her for 13 years and she is feel so lost and my heart breaks seeing her so devostated and lost. I am worrying about her that I am ringing so many times a day as we did not leave until after Mum had been taken and we finialised her funeral the next day as we all just needed to stay. I was there for a few days and slept on the floor in her room as I did not want her to be alone if it happened at night and we tag teamed it that she was never alone but she went in the afternoon while my Daughter was in her room doing things and talking to her. She has left a huge whole in all our hearts. My tears a flowing so that’s enough for now

Posted by arcticwynta, 3rd August 2014

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  • Sincerest condolences on your loss. No words can really provide comfort but do know that you are in our thoughts.


  • I am so sorry for your loss, may God give you strength to go through this hard time.


  • Im so so sorry for your loss. I am too grieving a loss, of my Dad. He passed away in January from cancer. We had 4 weeks with him after he was discharged from hospital with nothing more they could do. He was very sick at the start then peaked then very quickly took a turn for the worst. He was staying in my old room at Mum’s and passed peacefully on the 22nd jan which is tha exact same day his mum (my nanna) passed away in 2011 from cancer also. I am still struggling each day and also dealing with healing from my prophylactic breast cancer surgery I had in April. May you find comfort in knowing you have a beautiful angel watching over you, sending love


  • So sorry to hear of your sad news, i really hope your daughter can come to terms with whats happened, but im sure your be there for her when she needs you.
    At least shes no longer in pain and can finally be back with the love of her life may she rest in peace. xx


  • I read this with tears pricking at my eyes. I cannot imagine your pain. I have the same relationship with my grandmother and I can’t imagine a world without her. I’m so, so very sorry for your loss, as I have been following your story.

    • Thank you very much and I have noticed you always follow my posts. I feel very lost and broken with out my Mum


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