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It’s really difficult to think about this sometimes..
But giving up a baby was the hardest thing I have ever done. For those saying they could be a surrogate, REALLY think about the final result. Be prepared for your heart to break, because you become attached to that baby, even if you remind yourself for 9 months that it’s not your baby.. it hurts!


Posted anonymously, 30th June 2015


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  • What a amazing thing you did for another person, I hope you have amazing support around you

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  • Yeh I can see why that would be the hardest thing you’ve ever done. I don’t think I could do it. I’ve just had a baby and the crazy raging mummy bear hormonal instincts that appeared surprised me.
    I hope you are OK and I hope you get proper support (maybe counselling?) to deal with these very natural feelings. You are one brave kind woman :)

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  • My friend offered for me but I said no as it would of been hard for both her and I. Thankfully I got to have my own child. I don’t think I could ever do it, you are one beautiful person giving a gift of being a mother to someone who couldn’t be one, I hope you get to be a part of the child’s life. Hugs to you xx

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  • Its a amazing thing you have done, you have given someone else a dream come true. I hope in someway you can still be part of the gift you have given in the future when you are ready to… Big hugs and well wishes comming your way..

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  • I have great respect for women that can give this amazing gift. I couldn’t do it.

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  • i am not trying to write off your feelings or anything so please don’t take offence to my comment. I think that you are wonderful! People doing what you have done or giving their children up for adoption, they don’t make the decision lightly. You give someone a family and there are no words to describe how selfless and beautiful you are! You have a wonderful heart and the world sure could benefit from more love like yours :)

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  • I would love to do that for someone but I don’t think I could. You have to be very brave.

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  • i could do this. I could somewhat distance myself from the child and just go through the process. I would love to give someone a beautiful gift! I think that i would do it for a friend and def’ family but i am not sure about a stranger. I think that if i was helping bring a child to the world, i would still want to see it grow and see who they become but i am totally ok at handing babies back to their parents lol! I know how wonderful and fulfilled my life is by having children and i wouldn’t want anyone to not be able to experience this!

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  • I imagine it would be so very difficult. And then some.
    but remember this, you gave someone a baby to raise that may not have been able to have children. Your decision blessed a family

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  • I cannot imagine the feelings!

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  • I could never do it but what a wonderful woman you are. Giving an opportunity to be a parent who couldn’t do it on their own is such an amazing thing for you to do…My heart breaks for you but know you have given someone the best gift in the world

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  • I have always suspected this. I hope you feel you did the right thing, and that it’s a comfort to you.

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  • Sending you lots and lots of love and hugs, my heart break even reading about it. I don’t think I could do it.

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  • I dont think i coudl ever be one, it would be so so hard. Thinking of you xox

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