So March/April was to be a happy month

It was our sons 2nd birthday, we were to announce that we were 12weeks pregnant to our family & friends and finally we had a lovely family holiday planned. However the positives soon came to an end!

As well as celebrating my sons birthday, I was left grieving our baby who I lost at 6 weeks,admitted to hospital for a D&C, then 2 weeks later our family holiday was cancelled as my husband asks for a divorce! Yes you heard right. Talk about a double blow….. Thanks for listening! It’s now another 2 weeks on, husband has moved out for a trial separation, we are amicable & most importantly my son & I are doing ok :)

Posted by krismsa, 16th April 2013

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  • I wonder if he was already thinking about a divorce before you had a tragic loss of your unborn baby. I know of a guy whose work got behind while his wife was in hospital for the same reason. At the time he simply applied for leave at short notice and didn’t tell his employer the reason. When he returned to work he has to catch up with what he hadn’t done. It meant extra hours for a week or so, he didn’t know how to cope and work helped him to cope in his way. His employer decided something was wrong and called him into his office and had a good talk to him and it all came out in the open. After that the boss made sure he left work on time and offered to arrange counselling for him at the company’s expense., talked to a couple of other trusted employees and asked them to see if they could help him catch up.


  • How horrible. I hope now 2 years have passed and you are in a better place.


  • Wow, you had a whole years worth if shit happening in just a couple of months :/ You poor thing! But good to hear you and the little are doing well


  • My heart goes out to you! Are you going ok with your husband. Life is so hard sometimes. I hope you have flourished regardless of the tough situations.


  • i like reading these stories


  • great exellent


  • Oh dear, think it was more than just a crappy month.


  • oh dear sorry to hear this it put me in tears my partner left me when our baby was 20months old its so hard and im still in tears nearly everyday bubs is 2 in a wk been the worst time of my life by far and to go threw a losing a baby also just breaks my heart. Hope your ok. xx


  • I hope that everything is much improved for you. it sounds like you had a very rough time.


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