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most often used word all over the word and a word used among all the generations. Is it just a word or just an emotion? I have given it a thought many times but in the end i think no matter how much practical we become but words can never do any justice to definition of love. Everyone has their own definition and their own way to express it. Some do it by saying it then some will show it in their actions and some people keep it silently in their heart while doing everything for their loved ones without letting anyone know about it.

LOVE is supposed to be pure, strength, or just a way of living life. At times looking at people in love i am compelled to think may be it is a way to either hide yourself from the rest of the word or just find one´s true self. At times it is just nothing but a deep longing to live by their own terms so badly that people just fall in love and find a good enough reason to run away and build the life they always wanted to have. But how this happens or how can someone fall in love? Can this be intentional or just as simple as said ¨love at first sight¨ or merely a false image of being attached to someone?

In a honest comment, the definition of being in love or saying he/she is my love is actually a definition created by our own needs, desires, priorities and experiences. A lot of daily life factors have a huge role in putting this definition all together. I love him so much he is so nice, very mature, handsome or ..she is so beautiful like an angel fallen from sky to ground just for me.. now yeah yeah we will say awwww .. wait wait wait.. really i mena really a angel has fallen from sky and still all tip top dressed like a fairy.. and not only this there are lot of such reasons like this well settled, career oriented and blah blah blah..

Isn´t love is expected to be unconditional if it is a true love or isn´t a love is meant to be there for you through all your thick and thins. But what has happened to that love why a love marriage today is on the verge of divorce in few months or a year or two. I am not saying true love doesn´t exist yeah some people are so meant to be together that i myself can´t take my eyes off them. And in my heart i am silently wishing for the same and even praying for them to be always together and happily married till their last breath.

Love : a mothers concern for her children or a father standing beside her daughter always or a man holding her wife in his arms when she is sick or elder brother/sister giving their share of desert to their younger ones or a dog licking you all over no matter how much you tell him to stop stop..

Life is blissful isn’t it and it is blissful because there is love and it is very beautiful no doubt.

But i think its high time with the world changing so fast that may be we should re-think over our definition of love.

¨Love is not the feeling we have when we meet someone nice, talented or magical or charismatic BUT LoVe is what other person do to you how he/she makes you feel today and will do the same or more year after years or how that one person has the talent to bring the best in you or make you smile even when you have every single reason to cry and give up. Someone who has courage to be there for you always in your bad times even when he/she wouldn’t make it to the good times ¨

LOVE is not part of life but love is a way of living life..


Posted anonymously, 7th May 2014


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  • Have to agree. I think the word love is tossed around willy nilly nowadays. There’s no real meaning to it anymore. I love you dad! I love chips and sauce

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  • I totally Agree .. thanks for sharing

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  • Yes, love is a way of living life and is not only about feelings, it also can be about sacrificing for the other one’s good and persevering in hard times too.

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  • it has lost a bit of meaning

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  • such a wonderful word love – underused, overused, misunderstood but always powerful

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  • Love means different things to different people and is different in the different stages of our lives. Love is like an umbrella term that can then be categorised into numerous sub categories.

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  • love has always been something that is either miss understood by some, cause of the many layers it has, and the broad spectrum it is used in.

    Love, pure love is strong and powerful and empowering

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  • I completely agree – especially with the last bit – someone that makes you smile….

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  • I notice these day the word love or love you really are just becoming every day words with out the true meaning behind them. For example alot of people instead of saying bye on the phone the say love ya…..which to me does not mean alot. I know the difference between when some one says it with true meaning and is heart felt to the what is becoming the norm with no meaning

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