one more or not? - Real Mum story on MoM

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We have two gorgeous kids and are very lucky and happy. However I still feel like I want one more baby but my husband is adamant that he doesn’t want any more. I know of other people who have had the same problem. One of them stopped at two as her husband wanted but then always felt like the family was incomplete. I don’t want to live with that forever, but I would also feel terrible if we were to have another one and then have my husband resent the things that we couldn’t do or the hard work that a baby (lets face it, a kid of all ages) requires! I do not know how to resolve this while keeping our relationship and family unit happy, loving and intact. I guess if we do decide to try it may come down to what Mother Nature decides…!

Posted by billyjean, 16th April 2013

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- - mom81879 said
  - 09 Nov 2015
    1:06 pm
Maybe one or the other of you may change their mind sometime in the future? We had 2, we both thought that was enough at the time. Now I wonder why we didn’t go back for one or two more. Too late now though

- - mom113055 said
  - 17 May 2015
    12:37 pm
great to read it

- - mom99528 said
  - 04 Jan 2015
    8:10 pm
Oh good luck we are having the same debate we have 2 but hubby is adamant he doesn’t want another, whatever will be will be,

- - mom57522 said
  - 26 Dec 2014
    8:13 pm
Do what did Mother Nature decide?