Does anyone have to deal with passive aggressive behaviour in the family . It is subconscious form of the inability to cope with anger. This morning I lectured hub to speak out instead of ignoring the issues and giving me his crappy silent treatment and snide remarks . He stormed out and come softening up , don’t expect apologies either . He can’t help himself and I am too direct of course. His younger brother ( BIL ) is very serious . In fact I cant even toalk to him as he looks even scary . He talks loud and gives his wife the glare and constant blaming . She has given up and couldn’t care less because it is her problem and daughter has become one . We found out he was the most rejected and neglected in the family and his father is one who ignores his wife , but she is a caregiver due to her culture . Does anyone have stories to share and how they handled it . Thank you for allowing me to vent .
Posted anonymously, 11th January 2016