you and me both!!! everytime I am asked “Oh is she an only child -aren’t you having more” I feel so guilty, like I am doing her harm. Reality is I would love more, but she was 15 years of trying, so I am not holding my breath!!
I do get that awful feeling inside, and feel like telling whomever is asking why she is an only child, but it always feels like I am just making an excuse!
As long as you love and care for your offspring, it should not matter how many you have!
Posted by katelt, 28th May 2013