Friday was a hard day for my family as we laid my Mother to rest and just knowing we will not see or her or hear or hug or kiss her again hurts my heart but the day also came with a lot of anger for so called relatives…..Mum’s younger Sister when I rang her to let her know about Mum spat venom at me as she did not agree with Mum’s wishes…..well lady they were Mum’s wishes and I am sure when your time comes you would like your wishes followed…but she did not even attend the funeral…than there is my older sibling whom has not been near Mum for many years or even rang her but could ring and want to know when they could come and clean the house out…..well my Daughter owns every thing in the house and than he made a nasty call to my daughter when he found out the house was left to her…whom has lived and looked after my Mum for 13 years that she has better strap her self in for the biggest legal fight ever….He is wanting the whole house and not even a portion but Mum had a will and did what she did for her own reasons…where I was to get half the house and I told Mum I did not want it that my Daughter had earned it…she also left her car to my Son who made her sell it so she could enjoy the money on her self while she was alive as he told her all her ever needed from her was her love.
So Tuesday we go to solicitor and yes he had already rang and a $2000 retainer needed to be paid….Monday we get a call as I pre paid Mum’s funeral over 2 years ago that we had just over $3700 to find by the Thursday or they would not open the ground for Mum on the Friday….this is council. Thursday with all the kids chipping in we go and pay the money as well as pick and put a deposit on Mum’s headstone…Than i had the minister to pay on the day…..my Sibling’s contribution to any of this is nil My Son payed $165 for the flowers that was put on Mum and my sibling cared so much he could not even show up to his own Mother’s funeral…..well it does not take a brain surgeon to work out just what my Mother really meant to him and that was only what she was worth for his financial gain.
My Family are truely missing her and her love but the other could not give a crap and his heart is not hurting just his greed is running rapid
Posted by arcticwynta, 10th August 2014