Some people just choose to go that way. I know that i dont want something big but very private with family and friends

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Sorry for your sad loss.

How we choose to say goodbye or remember is up to each I individual.

Times are changing regarding funerals, I know some people that don’t want them, hubby and I feel the same and my parents didn’t have funerals, ashes scattered was all they wanted. Sorry for your loss.

I feel sorry for your loss.

I agree with the other replies here. everyone needs to say goodbye in their own was and by you just remembering in the way you are, then you are saying goodbye in a way that fits and suits you and your family. His family had their way of grieving and farewelling. We are all different in how we deal with what life gives us, it isn’t a reflection on a lesser feeling or importance.

It’s all good I wasn’t offended, people have different views of whether you have church or graveside funeral. Each to their own. If we had stacks of people there we probably would of had a church funeral but because it was little we opted for grave side.

Some people consider a Church Service a circus – my grandmother did and same with my mother in law – we were threatened with daily haunting if we gave my grandmother a church service lol

I am so sorry I did not mean to offend you and I am sorry to hear of your loss.

When we had our daughters funeral, we just had a graveside funeral. We didn’t want a church service one we just wanted to have very close family and a few close friends share the sad but special day with us. We had afternoon tea back at our house though so everyone could catch up and remember her.