Take to your bed for a few days! He’ll learn!

i often think Men just need a reality check, maybe a few days in your shoes will show him how much you really do. i’m lucky I used to worry so much trying to get everything done and now I just chill because the second the kids get home and their Dad the house gets trashed and all my work goes out the window and i get so angry and deflated. he has never, not once complained if ive sat all day having coffee with a friend or gone out to the beach to clear my head, he would rather i was happy than his home look like no one lived in it. I however am different and its only bacause of my up-bringing I expect to much. I wonder what your partner was taught as a kid, women are home makers and just do it, its not work it is a pleasure??? some are just programmed differently and can honestly never see the fault in anything they say. you are amazing for coping with all of this, a champion for doing the school and work runs and obviously a very dedicated mum and wife, sit and chill for a while sometime, you deserve it.

Ha! A lot of men feel this way….until they do a day on your shoes. That’s what I found anyway. Hubby used to always ask “What have you done today?” Implying it’s never much. Then I got sick and he took over my duties. He doesn’t ask me anymore!!

hugs babe, hope things are better for you now. sux being under appreciated

stories are great to read

it a a great and exellent story

I sometime feel like that as well

It’s tough when others don’t fully understand or appreciate who much you are doing, whether it’s as at home or out of the home.