I’ve had it happen and I know exactly what you mean.

sorry not had a play date like that! Hopefully I never do, because it would frustrate me.
Kids go and play, come in for a snack and then off to play again. Even craft play dates with the older kids are fun.

For us it’s more that the other kids can play more roughly with toys than my kids. Not to a standard I’d call bad, but it bothers my son.

I haven’t had a child behave like that when we have had play dates. But I won’t say because it still might happen!