Im a single mum, Ex was abusive, cheating, almost killed my daughter while I was pregnant… but I put that aside for him to have a good relationship with her. He would take her and not give her back as a new born, he would threaten bully, abuse me untill he got his way. He threatens court, him and his family abuse me in public enough that i have had t get a restraining order again my exs dad, and been encouraged to get one on my ex. Tuesday I was at uni, she was in daycare, he was watching her while I worked on wednesday, we were discussing the details but he didnt have anywhere for her to sleep. So i sggested he wath her in the morning instead where she doesnt need a sleep and I can pick her up when shes tired. Hell. Broke. LOOSE! “Ill make you feel how I feel not seeing my daughte” “hope you enjoy missing classes” he threatened to pick her up from daycare, i called the daycare saying I would pick her up, missed uni, raced there. they had to lock the centre down.

the abuse continued. when does it stop? whens enough? when my daughter is afraid of her dad at 10 months old?

ive had enough

Posted by taylorjane92, 30th May 2013

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  • It sounds to me like you may have to consider stopping contact. It’s not a good situation if you’re feeling like this, and for your baby to be scared, things need to change.


  • I hope you’ve listen to the good advice given by others!


  • you need to do what’s safe for you and your daughter,this seems to be a way for your ex to still have control over you i would be getting full custody and a restraining order on him.Go to the police explain what you are worried about, get away while you are still safe i wish you all the best.


  • I am so sorry for what you are going through, do you have any family that can help. If only you could change your name and move away, his family sound dangerous. You need to leave while you still can. I wish you luck and hope things work out.


  • You’ve already answered yourself and it’s pretty clear…. leave or risk getting your kid killed. So sorry for you and hope everything turns out well..


  • This is a very bad situation. Kids get killed in these situations. I would seriously, I am not kidding, pack up all I own, and get as far away as possible. Move states. Uni can be picked up, a job and house can be found. Your daughter has one life only. Immediately put a restraining order on him, and please for the sake of your child, get away from him. Far, far away.


  • I’d get out and stay away from him, it’s not worth risking your child’s life with this man. As she grows up, she will be affected by his violence and aggression. See http://www.domesticviolence.nsw.gov.au/

    I am thinking of you, please do something ASAP to save your child and yourself. HUGS.


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