I am a mum to 7 – 3 of which are to my husband. MY husband has 2 children from a previous relationship. He pays his child support every month – and without stating how much it is it is more than fair and I often wonder how the government do their maths… but that is a story for another day.
I am wondering why mothers deny access to dads that are genuine? That are doing the right thing in paying for their children and would just like a simple phone call, sms or even email on fathers day? or his Birthday?
Although my husband tried not to let it get to him, and he tried to put on a brave face and enjoy fathers day with “our”children… he was ever hopeful that just once his ex would allow his daughters to contact him. At 7pm I suggested that he phone them… to which when he did he was told that they were in bed. Umm a 12year old and 11 year old that are in bed at 7pm ? Not likely. It saddens me so much to think that these girls are being denied access to a daddy that loves them very much.
Posted by caramellosdream, 4th September 2013