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This week, the Australian government has put out the call to recruit families for its new in home nanny trial program that was announced in the May budget.

The Liberal government has set aside $250m for the trial, which is aimed at families with income-earning parents working shift work or based in rural areas. News outlets and social media forums lit up with the news and it seems there are many vocal and angry voices opposed to the trial.

Why are so many people so upset about this new idea? As a mother of three children under school age, the idea of affordable subsidised in-home assistance sounds convenient, progressive and downright practical.

However, there are many opinions that do not agree and sadly many of their concerns are ill-informed, often illogical and sometimes offensive.

Here are the most common arguments and why they’re just plain incorrect:

1) Taxpayers should not be funding childcare. Why should we pay for your kids?

This one is frequently cited against all childcare options, and has reared its ugly head again with this announcement. Consider for a moment, that prior to having children many women worked for several years and paid taxes which paid for other’s government entitlements for pensions and healthcare.

Why shouldn’t they benefit at this stage in their lives? Further, mothers who require nannies or other care will be working and paying taxes while they work.

By providing care for children, mothers are able to contribute towards the economy, and generate not only a job and taxpayers in themselves, but an extra job and taxpaying citizen in their nanny. It’s a win for mothers, childcare providers and all taxpayers in the economy.

2) We never got any help with our child’s care. Why should this generation?

Older generations tend to frequently question the entitlement of mothers to childcare assistance, stating they never received the same.

Putting aside the argument already put forward that mothers provide more money via taxes to the economy, the nature and cost of living these days is dramatically different to previous generations.

Many mothers once depended on the help of grandparents or relatives for child care, however these days families are more disparate and removed from those support networks. Government assistance is simply replacing those support networks through sensibly funded childcare options.

Bottom line, families today contribute more to the economy with two taxpaying citizens and they can continue to contribute with the right amount of assistance.

Closely related to the arguments on taxpayer-funded childcare, is this cracker:

3) If you can’t afford children/childcare, you shouldn’t have them.

This one is just ridiculous. Parents want the very best for their children, and most of the time this is why both parents are working and have the need for childcare in the first place.

Do opinionated individuals realise the significant costs of childcare for working families, which could be up to $600 per week for one child without rebates? Or $1,200 per week for two? Once again, subsidising these costs allows parents to contribute to the economy and provides jobs for childcare workers.

Further, costs of living in Australia in the present day is significantly higher than previous generations leading to the need for more government assistance.

Online comparison site finder.com.au reported earlier this year that “the average mortgage size is almost eight times bigger than it was in 1984, however average salaries have not kept up this pace, increasing by 316 percent”.

An increasing number of families require two income earners to afford a roof over their families heads, and finder.com.au further explains that “the proportion of repayments to income was 23 percent and now it’s 29 percent”.

4) Strangers should not be looking after your children, otherwise known as “use grandparents”.

Hopefully, this arguments comes from a place of consideration for children rather than judgement on parents, but either way it’s not a helpful comment.

In most circumstances, of course parents would rather their children be cared for by family or close friends but it’s simply not always possible.

The rising age of first time parents often means grandparents are older and unable to care for young children. Younger grandparents often have their own jobs to work and cannot afford to care for grandchildren.

Alternatively, our increasingly disparate society may simply be too far removed from support networks to take advantage of grandparent care. 

And perhaps, the most offensive:

5) If you don’t want to look after your children yourself, don’t have them

This argument is lobbied at all childcare options but is more prevalent when the word ‘nanny’ is included. Perhaps because nannies conjure ideas of wealth, privilege and the lack of need for government assistance. Or perhaps because it gives people the impression that women are shirking their responsibilities to their children or are unappreciative of the gift of their children.

As considered already, costs of living often require two incomes in a family. Women don’t necessarily want to leave their children, sometimes it is a necessity.

Other times, women simply would like the opportunity to continue their career, contribute to the family budget, or even just do something different outside of the home. This doesn’t necessarily mean full time, but even if it does, every mother knows that parenting is far more than 40 hours a week. Parents are still looking after their own children, while they work a paid job as well. What’s so wrong with that?

The availability and subsidy of childcare and nannies helps families to live. This trial specifically offers reliable affordable childcare to parents who live in remote areas or work shift work, often in vital professions such as police or medical staff.

The program does not help parents ditch their children, shirk their responsibilities, or leech money from taxpayers to take care of their children.

It offers hardworking families, often without family support or the incomes for a full time stay at home carer, the opportunity to work and contribute in their own individual way. I applaud the government for promoting such a responsive and progressive idea. Let’s hope this is just the beginning.

What are your thoughts on this? Please share in the comments below. 

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  • More options is a good thing for busy families. It is hard balancing family and demanding work lives so the more care options the better!

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  • I think its an awesome idea…especially for shift working parents and there are many of them.

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  • Giving people more options when it comes to childcare is a good idea.

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  • I’m a stay at home mum with only hubby working full time and Childcare is too expensive for 4 kids. We are not on any government payments but if I was to return to work, this nanny option would be great. I think parents should be encouraged to make own decisions with all options available to them.

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  • I was a stay at home mum all the time and loved it .We never expected any help from the government or any one else for that matter. W e never got any financial help from anyone. Wages were not any more than $60 per week then and things were not cheap then even by todays standards. We managed on 1 wage and were happy. I never had to consider child care.

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  • My husband and I both do shift work. We live in a generation that expects things to be open/available to them 24/7 and so there are those that must work odd or out of standard hours to accommodate this.
    We have no family in this state and we had 3 children under 4 when I decided to return to work for my mental health!! There are almost no childcare options for us at 5am or 11pm when we require it.
    I also think that the older generations don’t understand that the things they used to enjoy for free or little cost – now cost us a lot of money! Soccer for Under 3yo – $200 for 10 weeks, Dance for Under 5yo – $110 for 10 weeks. Swimming lessons – $150 for 10 weeks. Times all of that by 3 for our family and see how anyone can afford that with a mortgage, school fees, expensive food and bills on a single income under $100,000.


    • I can understand why we were never put into activities so young. We were both school age when we started activities – things that be beneficial healthwise and team bonding. One activity each. It’s not always possible for both parents to work when one is constantly caring for a sick person.
      Swimming at a young age I can understand. Until the age of 3 y.o. a responsible person has to go in the pool with a child. I hope that parents who put their children in sports and other activities at a young age at least stay there for the whole session. Unfortunately I know of some parents who think they can just “drop them off and run”. They think that if they can leave them at pre-school or the first year of school they can expect to do the same thing at activities.

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  • I am so glad I never had to choose to return to work after having children and leaving them in the care if others. When I did return, it was when the kids were at school and I worked around their hours. I was also lucky enough to be able to take them to work with me if I had to

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  • I know quite a few families who use nannies, and the nannies stay with the families for years. It is an excellent child care solution that should be more widely embraced and supported. In home child care provides a very positive outcome.

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  • Point 6.

    If the parent/s are working they are paying taxes, so will the nannies.

    Not many people can afford nannies, sp it will also increase jobs.

    How is this a bad thing?

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  • I personally loved staying home with my daughter. I never wanted anything else than that. But I think that this in home nanny trial program is fantastic and should have all the possible support.

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  • Lkenj

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  • I think nannies are great for shift workers and those that have extenuating circumstance to require one, and I think those that actually need a nanny should get priority over those that choose to have one simply because they can afford to

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  • I think it’s great that shift workers will get help

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  • yeah it is up to the family on what they can manage. nanny or not, you shouldn’t be made to feel guilty about your choice.

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