February 2, 2022


Looking to up your masturbation game or add a little spice to your vanilla sex life? One of the best (and easiest) ways to keep things interesting in the bedroom (or bathroom, or kitchen – whatever takes your fancy!) is by using a vibrator.

And my oh my haven’t vibrators come a very long way. Gone are the days of buying a ‘back and neck massager’ to do the job. Now there are all sorts of magical toys to get you where you need to be going. From suction vibrators to the ever-faithful rabbit there’s a whole smorgasbord of vibrators available to suit any taste.

Best Vibrators To Gift Yourself

So whether you’re a seasoned toy aficionado or just dabbling in vibrators for the first time, here are some great options to get you started. And don’t worry if you’re a little overwhelmed by all of the options – just head to the bottom of the article for some great info on different vibrator types.

Magic Touch Aurora Clitoral Suction and G Spot Vibrator, $98.99

Magic Touch Aurora Clitoral Suction and G Spot Vibrator

If there’s one thing that can get annoying while using a sex toy, it’s getting numb down there. But this heavenly vibrator has three suction and massage functions that don’t numb the clitoris. The eight vibrating settings are perfect for hitting the G-spot, the suction works just as well on nipples as well as the clitoris and it’s also waterproof!

We also love that it’s quiet, so you can get busy whenever the mood takes you!

Magic Touch Aurora Clitoral Suction and G Spot Vibrator Review:

Life changing! Do yourself a favour … GET THIS TOY! You will not, I repeat, you will not be disappointed. Never experienced anything like the euphoria that this toy gave me! My husband was equally amazed, to say the least

via ClubX

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ViViDO Wink Vibe, $39.99

ViViDO Wink Vibe vibrator

There are seven inches of silicone fun to be had with this hot pink beauty! The Wink is designed to tickle and stimulate all of your pleasure spots, including the G-spot and clitoris.

With 12 vibration modes in the body and three in the rabbit tickler, there’s plenty of variety with this toy.

ViViDO Wink Vibe Review:

Too good, if you know what I mean!

- via Catch

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The Firefighter, $74.95

The Firefighter Vibrator

How adorable is this guy! This waterproof vibrator’s unique shape is designed to extend the vibrations to the labia so the sensations are felt well beyond the usual spots. It’s quiet and smooth and is also perfect for couple play.

The Firefighter Review:

This vibrator is simple to use and does the job well. The concentrated vibrations at the point provide stimulation to the clitoris, while the lips of the Fireman speeding out to the rest of the vulva provide stimulation to an area that other vibrators would miss. Love this product!

- via Adore Beauty

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Vush Abbie Chatfield Spot Vibrator, $149.99

Vush Abbie Chatfield Vibrator

A bold nod to the gorgeous Abbie Chatfield, this waterproof vibrator has 25 levels and vibration intensities, but the motor is nice and quiet. It’s perfect for use internally and on the clit, and is shaped to hit that G-spot perfectly.

Vush Abbie Chatfield Spot Vibrator Review:

It’s awesome! So impressed with this product, packaging was amazing, as for the performance? Well, she’s powerful! Buy this vibe, you won’t regret it!

- via Wild Secrets

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Lovehoney Classic Magic Wand Vibrator, $89.95

Lovehoney Classic Wand Vibrator

With over 3000 five star reviews, it’s hard to ignore the OG classic wand vibrator. This fella is powerful, with a scroll wheel that lets you control the vibrations easily. The flexible head means varied play, and it’s a really great beginner vibrator if you’re new to the sex toy game.

Lovehoney Classic Magic Wand Vibrator Review:

My experience has been so satisfying with this wand as it’s the most powerful thing I own, I’ve used it my myself and with a partner and I’ve finished every time and I don’t even use the most powerful settings unless my partner is controlling the speed. This wand also made me squirt for the first time!  If you love powerful vibrations then this product would be perfect for you, it’s also perfect if you like stimulation on a wider area like the vulva ectc too because of its head. The lowest setting is still decently powerful, it should be good for most people unless you reallyyyy need softer vibrations for it to feel good.

- via Lovehoney

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Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator, $139.95

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Hello lover! This beauty is part of the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection, and is a powerful friend in the bedroom (like Mr Grey himself). The two motors mean the rabbit and shaft can be used on different settings, with 36 possible vibration combinations. But the power doesn’t equal indiscreet, the motor is still quiet. But you won’t be!

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator Review:

First class orgasm. Great item it gives great satisfaction on no time. Deep all over tingling with not even a tiny bit of effort from me. Certainly does make me feel greedy for more. Had rabbit ears for years but this one is the best. Nice and quiet. Get one treat yourself. Does your self esteem the world of good enjoy ladies and gents if that’s your thing.

- via Lovehoney

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Lovehoney Up All Night Couple’s Sex Toy Kit, $129.95


What’s better than using sex toys alone? Using them with a partner of course! This sweet collection includes six pieces: a wand vibrator, G-spot vibrator, a bullet vibrator that’s compatible with the textured cock ring, a butt plug and a stroker. There’s plenty to keep you and your partner busy!

Lovehoney Up All Night Couple’s Sex Toy Kit Review:

Great beginners kit! My husband and I were looking to add more excitement to our vanilla sex life, and this kit is such a great start. We received it in the mail yesterday and so far have tried three pieces.

The stroker w/ bullet inserted: My husband was blown away by this thing. I witnessed him have the most intense orgasm I’ve ever seen from him!

The mini wand: I loved this item. It has a nice range of settings, and the different vibrations helped keep me from getting numb.

The g-spot vibe: The only way to describe this vibe is small but mighty! I used it solo today and it did the job in about five minutes.

Overall, I highly recommend this kit for couples who are newbies to toys in the bedroom like us! Great, easy to use toys that are not intimidating. Can’t wait to try the rest of the pieces!

- via Lovehoney

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X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator, $49.95

Clitoral Suction Vibrator

A small but might suction clitoral stimulator that has six intensity levels to keep things interesting! The air suction technology gives you a whole new range of sensations to try in a compact little vibrator. But don’t take our word for it, have a read of the brilliant review below.

X ROMP Switch Clitoral Suction Stimulator Review:

Before buying this, masturbation was an entire process. I’d dim the lights, get some music going, maybe watch a video or two, and spend upwards of half an hour working my way up and really putting some elbow grease in to get me where I need to be.

Now? I barely even get to the dimming lights stage before I’m just about ready to pack up again. This thing will have you visit god and return again before you can begin to worry about someone walking in on you. You don’t even need to settle in anywhere comfortable, just pull this thing out the drawer and widen your stance. You’ll be finished after 20 seconds of ascension. This device has truly allowed me to sympathise with dudes that bust a nut within seconds.

Some experiences just weren’t meant for mortal humans. Using this thing is probably one of those experiences.

- via Lovehoney

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Wearable Vibrator with Magnetic Wings, 56.93

Vibrator with remote

If you’re after a bit of cheeky fun, either by your own hand or your partner’s, this wearable vibrator is the bomb! Pop it into your underwear and hand the remote to your partner to enjoy some discreet fun while you’re out and about. The magnetic wings help keep it in place, so you can enjoy a stimulated stroll or pleasurable dinner and nobody will be the wiser. If you can keep quiet!

Wearable Vibrator with Magnetic Wings Review:

This is so much fun, especially for partner play. My husband and I went shopping while I wore this and we had a great time. Anytime I walked by something he wanted he would hit the button. Needless to say sporting goods is my new favourite place.

via Amazon

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Different types of vibrators

There are so many sex toys options available now, it’s pretty easy to be a little overwhelmed (and very excited!). If you’re unsure of where to start or what certain vibrators do, here’s a rundown of the most popular types of vibrators, what they do and how to use them to help you hit the highest of highs.

Generally, there are four main types of vibrators: vaginal, bullet/clitoral, combination and G-spot.

Vaginal vibrators are pretty much your classic vibrator that are designed to be used internally, but can also be used to stimulate the clitoris. They’re generally long and some are designed to look like the real thing, while others are more streamlined.

Bullet/clitoral vibrators are discreet and small, but do come in a few different designs, including suction. Ah-ha!

The most famous combination vibrator is the rabbit. These vibrators have a shaft section that’s inserted, while the separate ‘rabbit’ section stimulates the clitoris at the same time.

Finally, G-spot vibrators are used internally and are shaped in a curved way that’s designed to hit that glorious G-spot.

How to use a vibrator

It all depends on which type of vibrator you buy. They all come with their own instructions on the best way to use them for maximum pleasure. But you can experiment a little and see if there are different ways to use them. For example, while a classic vaginal vibrator is designed to be inserted, it can also be used directly on the clitoris.

How to clean a vibrator

It’s really important to make sure you keep your vibrator clean, because bacteria can build up and cause infections. Make sure you read the manufacturer’s instructions on your vibrator, because if it’s not waterproof it obviously can’t be submerged completely in water. However, there are specific sex toy cleaning items that can be purchased, like the LELO Toy Cleaning Spray, $12.95. Just make sure you clean your vibrator thoroughly and allow it to dry between uses.

Happy playing!

Do you have a favourite vibrator we should add to our list? Let us know in the comments below.

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  • Good article for those ladies who would be too embarrassed to look into this on other websites.


  • This is a very informative article explaining the benefits of each item. I would love to get one for myself but do not feel comfortable doing it when Hubby is home wish he went out more hmmmmm.


  • I’m in the market for a new vibrator, really appreciated this article..


  • One of my new ones is pictured above…. Yihaa is all I can say


  • Yes! I love this. I wish more women knew the pleasure of self sexual satisfaction.
    There’s nothing dirty or shameful about being in control of ones own orgasm.

    Just remember to pee afterwards.


  • I’m suprised at some comments which really make maturation sound dirty. It’s a wonderful, natural thing ladies. We really shouldn’t be ashamed to want to feel pleasure. Every single one of us deserves to experience incredible orgasm!


  • My partner and I have recently purchased a wand and my oh my! :O


  • What a saucy little article.
    Who doesn’t need to spice up their sex life after they’re married though.. help a girl out.


  • Not everyone’s cup of tea, will give these a pass, hubby works just fine :-)


  • I truly need to spice up my vanilla sex life ????????. I have a vibrator which to be honest have not used for 3 years now.
    A friend suggested getting the book “The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Got it but have not read it yet. Maybe ???? a new vibratory and reading the book will do the trick. ????????


  • So many choices


  • Never tried one myself but it’s great that there are so many options out there for those who want it


  • I have one of those and I am happy to use it when I feel like it.


  • Not sure how hubby would feel if I was to get myself one of these.


  • I’m not really interested in this whatsoever


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