A dad-to-be has unleashed a brutal online post, saying pregnant women have no excuses for ‘being fat’.

The man, who goes by ‘Neo’ on social media, posted a photo on X (formerly Twitter), saying this is what his wife looks like at eight months pregnant.

“This is how you should look when you are pregnant,” he wrote, “There are zero excuses to be fat just because you are pregnant. This is my wife in her eighth month.

Zero complications
Zero pain
Zero mood swings

Just admit you are lazy bitch.”

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The controversial post attracted both supportive comments, and those hitting back at the statement.

“You can’t tell a woman how she should be during one of the toughest periods a human let alone a woman has to go through,” one person commented. “Women react different to pregnancy, their bodies react different to the hormonal changes.”

To which Neo responded:

“Women have been told that they can act how they can and eat what they want and it’s ok. If society feeds you something your entire life, you will start to believe it. Most women, if taken care of their body and health will be very happy during pregnancy.”

Another person commented: “All fine and dandy, but the bigger stresses come after pregnancy, with the sleep adjustments, etc. Just take it easy a bit. Sleep is disturbed for 6 years after childbirth. It’s stressful. The reward are the children and they shall outlast us.”

And another said, “She looks great! However pregnancy differs for every woman. There’s some women who find it super easy, but some women who find it incredibly difficult.”

Neo says his wife is due to give birth in three weeks.

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  • Neo, Just admit you are a disturbed, abusive, insecure prick!


  • Not just what he said , which is ghastly and wrong, but the way he said it…. calling someone bitch…. does he kiss his mother with that mouth?!!!


  • What an absolute wander typical male judgement because he’s not the one who’s pregnant for nine months this male should stay out of things he will never know feel experience and he should pull his head out of his arse and grow the fuck up.


  • He only had to go 5 minutes, she had to handle it for 9 months. He needs to have a reality check. I feel sorry for the child if it’s a girl. She’ll have to live in the same house as this troglodyte. He’s just a rude, arrogant f***head.


  • Up yours Neo. Try being sick 24/7 Neo for the entire 9 months and then tell me how you feel!


  • Neo is a psychopath


  • He sounds like a great guy


  • He is welcome to have an opinion but to state this as a fact is wrong. All women are different and he has no right to judge others for something he will never personally go though. As for his wife I feel sorry for her having such a judgemental person in her life. Heaven for bid she gets bigger in the future, for better or worst I don’t think so.


  • It is a very narrow view that I only partially agree with. If there are no issues, then yes, you can look great if you eat healthy and exercise, but some women have issues with fluid or they may not be able to exercise. I stayed fairly small, but I didn’t have any issues.


  • It’s a personal statement he made assuming ALL pregnant women should be like that without any form of evidence or research to back it up so really rubbish and empty talk.


  • When will people learn that their opinions need to be kept to then selves. So many reasons for weight gain during pregnancy… hormones being a big one?!?


  • His wife is probably too scared to gain weight, show complications and mood swings! I would truly love to see him be pregnant and have him go through a 78 hour labour like I did with my last baby. And the weight gain, I won’t even talk about that and yet I hardly ate the whole 9 months!! Let him stay in a maternity ward for 48 hours and see REAL women go through a REAL pregnancy and childbirth!!! Wonder what he will do when his wife starts screaming in pain? I pity his poor baby if it’s a girl with what he will be saying to her in the future when she’s having a baby, or if it’s a boy and what he will be telling him on how a woman should be and what the boy will be expecting of his future bride. MEN…….no wonder I’m single lol


  • Ugh 1879 called and the want you back! What a tool! Men commenting on how women should look during something men cannot even fathom or remotely be capable of doing! Please go away…. This ooor woman marrying him, let’s hope he too looks like a Brad Pitt lookalike having those sort of comments


  • What a piece of work he is. Don’t like his comments at all and if she’s having to put up with him as a husband then I wish he luck in the future.


  • I hope his poor wife never puts on any weight and loses her belly again quickly after this birth and any further pregnancies she has with this man.
    I’m pregnant with my 4th now and have never had round ligament pain or as much discomfort early on as I’ve had with this one!
    I put the most weight on with my first baby! I am lucky in that I don’t put a lot of weight on.
    Can’t believe the ignorance of some people with regards to women and how we differ from one to another!


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