Getting in the mood is definitely a completely different kettle of fish for women as it is for men.

Men don’t find it as hard as women. They can switch on faster than women and their definition of getting in the mood is something as simple as taking their pants off, or perhaps accidentally brushing against your boob while you’re cooking dinner together in the kitchen.

Women take a little more time, and are a bit more proud in the way they approach it.

We are a tad more complicated and each have our individual way of getting in the mood and feeling sexy.

If you find it difficult to get in the mood, never fear. Herbal healer and founder of natural aphrodisiac product range, Miracle Minded, Liz Stringer, shares four quick tips on how you can get in the mood, tonight:

1) Mental stimulation

It’s known that women need more stimulation than just the touch.

It’s also about mentally being in the moment to feel stimulated.

It’s been said that you have to also have sex with a woman’s mind, not just her body. Finding out what works best for you is key.

Whether it’s dirty talk, or perhaps something a bit more creative like role-play. Have a think about what gets you excited and share this with your partner.

Communicating needs, wants and desires will not only bring you closer, but will keep things fresh and interesting.

2) Be the sexy goddess that you are

This step is so important. You won’t get in the mood unless you’re feeling your best. Take some time away from your busy life and have some “me time”.

Do whatever it is that makes you feel beautiful.

Whether it’s wearing something seductive, doing your hair a little different, whatever! I’m all about women empowerment, and doing whatever you need to feel amazing.

3) Be present

Our lives are so hectic. We’re working, raising children, running errands and trying to look after ourselves, all at the same time.

Mums are the queens of multi-tasking, the things we can accomplish in one day would amaze most men, but it’s important to just stop sometimes and quiet our minds.

Let go of everything and be in the moment. This will make you feel recharged and regenerated.

And let me tell you, you will definitely be more open to getting in the mood with your partner.

4) Indulge in some aphrodisiac products

Some of us find it difficult to get in the mood, and some are embarrassed to turn to aphrodisiac products to lift our libidos. Which is nothing anyone should be ashamed of!

Miracle Minded are an Australian owned company and we’ve recently launched three all natural aphrodisiac products that are historically proven to increase stamina, energy and libido.

The range includes a hot chocolate, love potion and aphrodisiac tea, and it is encouraged that you share them with you partner, so you can both enjoy and get in the mood.

For more information on Miracle Minded or to purchase the products, visit here.

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  • Lots of great hints and tips here to help mums out. Not always so easy to put into practice though. So many outside factors influencing bedroom time :/


  • If you can’t get in the mood, there is something underlying in the relationship that needs work on. If you are in love relaxed and appreciated your going to want your partner without miracle potions.


  • thanks for sharing


  • these tips are worth trying for sure


  • Hi Ladies, Has anyone tried the above tips and had some success?! Would LOVE to hear some comments xx


  • Mmmh, interesting article….


  • I’m not really into going public with sexy time stories but I really find no good mural times for us to ever do it


  • caring and sharing always does the trick for me


  • hahaha so i think i’m more like a man when it comes to getting in the mood.


  • thanks for sharing this article. Great read


  • mmmm the good old days


  • Since the birth of my child i struggle with this so much. I miss it..maybe have to utilise some of these tips. I hope it helps!


  • I guess if buying a product makes you feel better then it’s what works for you buts it’s often unnecessary, just take the time


  • Hi Ladies! Wow such a diverse group of comments. I created the products after feeling a real need for empowerment after the birth of my first child. I highly recommend them as a treat for yourself. Not only do they taste great, they are amazing for libido, energy, stamina, relaxation and well being. Happy Melbourne Cup Day! Best wishes, Liz @ Miracle Minded P.S Making love is great for your health, do it as much as possible I say!!! Hehe


  • Thanks for the tips! As a busy mom of 2 small boys, life certainly gets really busy & hubby is often left to last — I’ll show him this article so that he could understand a little. Thanks!


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