If you’re expecting a baby and have toyed with the idea of giving your little one a name with an unusual spelling – let this story be a word of warning.
A teenager says the way her parents spelled her name caused her so many problems in her life, so she decided to do something about it, without telling them.
“My parents named me ‘Emily’ but instead of spelling it Emily, they spelled it ‘Emileigh’ because they wanted me to have ‘options’ for my name,” she explained.
“So I could be Em, Emmy, Leigh, etc. The spelling has caused so many problems for me. People will forget themselves and spell my name Emily and then realise it’s not how mine is spelled. I had teachers in grade school think I was being funny trying to spell my name Emileigh.
“So some teachers let me write Emily on school work and even some tests and we’d say nothing. They knew it was a PITA for me. My friends all write Emily if they refer to me. And I always knew I would change it.”
And change it she did, as soon as she turned 18.
“My parents only realised when I started getting stuff addressed to ‘Emily Jones’ instead of ‘Emileigh Jones’. My parents started saying I should call and yell at the people who spelled my name wrong and I told them it wasn’t wrong, I had changed it.
“I never told them I was doing it because I knew they wouldn’t like it. And I was right. They went on and on about how the spelling they gave me was the better choice and wasn’t as bad as I always made out. I told them I kept the name, it’s just spelled the correct way and the way people will actually remember it.
“They complained some more and I told them to get over it because they don’t have to live with people questioning their capability of spelling their own name and such an easy name at that.”
The teenager now wants to know if she was in the wrong. Leave your opinion in the comments below.
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