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Jessie J has vowed that she will fight to be a mother in an emotional post after revealing she was unable to conceive a child naturally.

The singer, 30, told fans she discovered she had fertility issues four years ago and detailed her ‘pain and sadness’ at the situation as she took to the stage at London’s Royal Albert Hall on Tuesday night.

She has taken to Instagram to thank her followers for their ‘love and support’ in the wake of the heartbreaking admission, shares Daily Mail.

She wrote: ‘After explaining the meaning of my song ‘Four Letter Word’ on stage during this tour. The love and support I have received has been overwhelming.

‘Thank you. I was told 4 years ago I won’t be able to have children. I was also told I would need a hysterectomy immediately and to be put on medication. I refused the hysterectomy I’m off all medication through natural medicine and diet change.’

The star, who is currently in a relationship with actor Channing Tatum, also revealed that she hadn’t lost hope that she would have a family, writing: ‘I am doing all I can to make it happen the best way my body will allow … I will be a mother … I believe in miracles.

‘But if it doesn’t happen naturally. Then that wasn’t meant to be the journey. But a mother is within all of us. That inspires everyday. We are strong. Time will tell.’

‘I don’t tell you guys for sympathy because I’m one of millions of women and men that have gone through this and will go through this.’

‘It can’t be something that defines us but I wanted to write this song for myself in my moment of pain and sadness but also to give myself joy, to give other people something that they can listen to in that moment when it gets really hard.

‘So if you’ve ever experienced anything with this or have seen somebody else go through it or have lost a child, then please know you’re not alone in your pain and I’m thinking of you when I sing this song.’

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  • It can be a long and draining process.

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  • Bless all who struggle to conceive !

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  • Didn’t she have a stroke in her teens? Tough things to deal with.


    • If she did have a stroke, it means her brain was effected and that part may be “connected” to her reproductive organs. It possibly cause significant muscle and nerve damage to various parts of her body.

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  • I thought Channing Tatum was married?

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  • Good on her for doing her best to stay positive.

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  • It is always really nice when such a public figure shares a story like this.

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  • I do not know her music but her words above will resonate with many, the ability to procreate is a blessing and should not be assumed. So many have struggles


    • She was a judge on The Voice Australia for a while and released many hits prior to the show.

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  • She will be able to adopt in the future if she wants to.

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  • Wishing her all the best I also do believe in miracles and know it will happen for her one day .

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  • Celebrities are people too and have normal problems just like everyone else. It’s heartbreaking to not be able to conceive!

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  • It is definitely a struggle trying to conceive. There are so many worries for a female to go through in this day and age

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  • Fertility issues are indeed a painful struggle for women and their partners. Being faced with a hysterectomy must be so emotionally painful.

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  • Sorry to hear.
    Yes Jessie, you’re not alone in your struggle, there are many women & men carrying this pain.
    Don’t give up hope ! xx

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  • It’s so sad to read. There was nothing I wanted more when we were trying for our baby too so I can imagine the pain she must be feeling

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  • Good on her for being so open. Hopefully her story might help other women.

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  • How devastating for her, I hope if she can’t have children biologically that she looks into fostering or adoption, lots of kids need love they can’t get from their biological families

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  • I hope she has her miracle but if not I hope her strength going public helps others in the same position.

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  • It is wonderful that she’s had an outlet to express her pain and sadness into song. She is not alone. I wish Jessie J all the best on her continuing journey to become a mother.

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  • A very personal sand honest article,l hope she gets her wish.

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  • That’s sad. It’s always sad when conception doesn’t happen naturally. Something so natural is impossible. It’s especially sad when you see some people have kids who should never have been parents a pt all

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