June 17, 2019


I was asked by a dude, “what do you women want? All my wife does is nag, complains she’s tired, and expects me to read her mind, some advice please” so here it is…

If you don’t want a wife that nags, then help her out.
If you don’t want a tired partner, then encourage her to have time to herself.
If you don’t want her to question you, give her honesty,
If you can’t read her mind, then listen when she talks.
If you want a connection, give her attention
If she tells you how she feels, don’t dismiss it.

If you want sex, give her romance and intimacy. No one wants a wham bam, thank you ma’am. (No one) women enjoy sex, whoever made up the lie that we don’t because we are all pure hand maidens is an idiot and long dead I imagine.

If you want appreciation and acknowledgement, then make sure you show her the same.

If you want her to feel loved, then make sure you show her by doing all of the above.

Your partner isn’t your maid, she isn’t your mother, she is your friend and your lover, so treat her that way.

If you want to show her you respect her, and care about her wants, don’t follow up this post with, what about me?

Give what you take. Treat her like an equal. It ain’t rocket science.

Well said, Laura!

Share your comments below

  • My husband needs someone to explain this to him. He certainly doesn’t listen when I say it.


  • That was interesting to read!


  • I wouldn’t want to be with someone who needed this spelt out.


  • Us women shouldn’t have to spell it out to our other half. I think it just commonsense. Some guys just don’t see what us women go through and understand how much we do.


  • So, so true. However in some cases the guys do more work around the house than the woman does + a 40 hour a week job while the women has the day to herself – no children to care for.


  • She is on the money hopefully some of the men out there hear this and act


  • Amen to this, should be told to every man


  • Exactly oh and stop trying to speak for your partner, they have their own voice, make sure to listen when they use it


  • Reasonable expectations for partners in life.


  • Yes, clear and simple really.


  • I think most women would agree.


  • I’m still looking for someone who does all of those things. My true “other half”. Well written indeed.


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