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Parents of a seven-year-old boy have released pictures of their son’s dying breaths as a warning to others about this terrible illness.

The Sun reports that Claire and Mark Timmins’ son Mason died of Meningitis two weeks before Christmas in 2013 and needed a life support machine towards the end of his tragically short life.

The UK couple want to make sure no other parents have to suffer the loss of a child at the hands of the illness.

A petition in the UK asking the government to vaccinate all children against meningitis B has become the most-signed in history after 600,000 people put their names down.

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In an interview with the Daily Mirror, the parents said: “They’re not very nice pictures, obviously. We had kept them in a box in the loft until we saw the heartbreaking photograph of Faye Burdett, the two-year-old who died on Valentine’s Day.

“So many people responded through shock from that, and so we thought if it’s going to make a difference we should use our photo as well.

“It was quite an easy decision to make. As soon as I mentioned it to my husband he said ‘yes, if it will get people to listen’.

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“Hopefully it will shock people into finding out more about meningitis. We want people to know just how quickly it can happen.”

Mason didn’t develop a rash but woke up vomiting one morning and fell asleep watching a children’s TV show.

He was then rushed to the doctors who said he had meningitis but by then it was too late and he died 24 hours later in the arms of his parents.

Claire continued: “I remember the moment he died every day. I can talk without crying now, but my husband can’t. He gets two or three words out, and that’s it.

“One nurse switched off the machine, the other one removed the pipes and then they put him on our lap and left us with him. We still felt his heart beating for a good 10 minutes after they switched the machine off — but it got slower and slower.

“We said ‘his heart’s still beating.’ But they said ‘that’s normal’.

“All the medical staff then left just before 3pm, after they took these pictures.

“There were a couple of minutes of silence. We were just kissing him and hugging him, and wondering why this was happening. Everybody gave him a hug and said goodbye, and then our family left me and Mark. We tucked him back into bed, and then the doctors came back and pronounced him dead at 3.20pm.

“It sounds silly now, but the hospital gave us a box when we left on the day he died. Inside it they’d given us a paint print of his hand and his foot, and they also took casts. They also gave us the photos the nurses had taken in his dying moments.

“For months I kept them in a box in a sideboard cupboard. For the first few months I got them out every few days, just to take a look — it was the only way I could see it was real.

“But then we put everything in a big memory box in the loft. That’s where they’ve been until now.”

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Symptoms of meningitis can include via Better Health:

•headache
•fever
•vomiting
•neck stiffness and joint pains
•drowsiness and confusion
•purple–red skin rash or bruising
•discomfort looking at bright lights (photophobia)

Things to remember
•Bacterial meningitis is serious and requires very prompt medical attention.
•Different germs can cause meningitis.
•Viral meningitis is relatively common and may also be serious.
•Vaccination can protect against some forms of meningitis.

  • My heart is breaking for this family..losing a child is bad enough but to lose him this way is just tragic… I wish them love and the will to go on without their baby boy.. they say time heals, but it only dulls the sadness …

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  • bless their hearts – what a heartbreaking story to read x

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  • How sad. It would have been heartbreaking, so sorry for their loss. Hopefully it gets the attention it needs and people vaccinate their kids

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  • Oh my gosh. Sitting here in tears. What a horrible thing for any parent to go through.
    RIP little man xx

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  • I’m so sorry for your loss, losing your child is the hardest thing in the world to go through and you need your strength and love for each other and most of all your son to get through this saddest time and get through everyday day by day I wish you all the love and strength in the world. Xo

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  • Such distressing photos. No parent should have to go through this.

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  • Poor boy! 🙁 There are still too many cases of meningitis in the world. These pictures are really powerful. 🙁

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  • I’ve always been terrified of meningitis. These poor parents.

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  • Hi I’m a surviver from menningistis B. I’m just heartbroken after reading this story. I’m sorry for your loss. RIP beautiful angel

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  • Such heartbreaking images. So glad that they have found the courage to share these emotional photos with others in an effort to help save lives. Such a terrible illness that can strike anyone and is so aggressive and life threatening.

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  • My heart goes out to this family.

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  • This is heartbreaking. My thoughts are with the family.

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  • Incredibly heart breaking. For any parents who have lost a child through this awful disease my heart breaks for you. Vaccines against both the B and C strains should be on the PBS in Australia or similar schemes in other countries.


    • I agree with you, and plenty of publicity by the Govt. to make people aware of the availablity of the vaccine on PBS Scheme, the life threatening risks and symptoms of Meningitis and urge people to have their children vaccinated.

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