I used to watch How to Make an American Quilt and thought the answer to marry someone who was like a best friend or someone you were passionate about was easy, friends are for life but passion comes and goes. Having now been married for over 14 years together for close to 20, I think maybe I was wrong. I really feel like I am only living with the father of my children and that my husband has gone forever. We don’t do any couple time, he’s become reticent to communicate and has rarely made changes to better himself, whilst I have worked hard over the years to address many of my foibles to become a better me. I no longer know how long I can put up with the lack of passion.
Posted by colleen b., 19th March 2014