struggling

your just not alone im in tears everyday no help no support just me and my 2 sons 11 and 2

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  • • deborah_osborne replied
    • 07 Feb 2015 , 10:43 pm

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  ,Sorry this happens to u also ,leeast this Mouth of Mums is a link to others .:-)

Thanks for comments nice to know I’m not alone

Thank ou Mums ,will try be positive,services in my area is minimal ,live rural..

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  • • mom93821 replied
    • 30 Jan 2015 , 9:48 pm

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  Maybe try telephone services or online services too. Telephone services should be free?

Also; please know that you are not alone; there are support groups that can help you.

Yes, there are times it can feel like everything is against you. Please talk to your GP – she may be able to suggest some ways to help you.

I agree small positive changes can make a big difference!
Might not seem like much but even writing out some inspirational quotes and putting them on your fridge or places you’ll see them is a good start.

Keep trying to be positive. Sometimes we all go through a bad patch where everything seems to go wrong. Is there a friend you can start walking with, or meeting for coffee occasionally? Little changes can make a big difference and I hope you feel better soon.

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  • • mom57522 replied
    • 31 Jan 2015 , 9:32 pm

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  When I’m going through a bad patch, I look for little things, like a blue sky, a favourite book or pretty flowers to give me a little lift.

I hope you do get some help as there are lots of places out there to find it. My son had a failed relationship a few years ago & because of his shift work couldn’t get out & about to meet people so he went online & meet his partner. They are now engaged & have a child that has brought so much joy to their lives.

I am so sorry to hear this! Please seek some support; maybe a counsellor to talk with about your feelings. Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way.