The key to increased desire for sex starts with your thoughts. Because you are what you think about, thoughts become things and like attracts like.

All of these quotes are based on the theory of Law of Attraction or more scientifically, Quantum Physics. Albert Einstein who was famous for his influence on the philosophy of science proved that as humans our thoughts become our external reality. I would recommend you read that sentence a couple of times and really take in what that means.

We really need to be careful what we think about and more simply we should increase our thoughts of what we want to manifest into our lives.

With this basic principle in mind we can honestly change the world we see. But that is not what I am here to write about! I would like to propose a simple and effective idea on the topic of libido and how to forever rid yourself of low sexual desire and passion. Because trust me ladies, it sure does fluctuate for us through our lifetime doesn’t it.

Although before I tell you this simple secret I first need you to let go of every possible story you can come up with on why your sex desire and passion are not what they used to be. Let go of every story associated with blaming your partner, kids or even life in general. Your sex desire is all yours and no one else’s. To understand the secret I am about to reveal you must take full responsibility for you.

I would like to ask you to try this with an open mind. Let go of your ideas and simply try what I am saying.

Think about sex daily. It’s that simple. Add it to your daily routine. Even add in to your morning coffee routine. Have a cup of coffee and think about sex! Remember good experiences, fantasise about your favourite Hollywood actor, think about what it is that turns you on. Anything that creates a positive energy around sex is perfect for your thoughts. Your sex life can be whatever you want it to be!

Now I must say one more important point. I have heard many stories of women using sex as like a bargaining tool in their households against their husbands. Now I can understand if it really turns you on to see your husband doing the dishes but please remember your sex life is for YOU to enjoy. Sex and intimacy are great for YOU on a physical, mental and spiritual level. If you aren’t enjoying it with your partner then communicate and work on it together.

Please comment below and let me know your experiences. 

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  • Stands to reason as sex is just as much mental stimulation as it is physical.


  • Thank you for sharing your thoughts.


  • This makes sense. Simple really. Thanks for highlighting because we are all guilty of not prioritising.


  • Ill give it a go when I have my coffee tomorrow morning!


  • Thank you so much for sharing! :D Interesting point!


  • Having kids definetly changes ones desire around Dex but if your open and communicate with partner it’s easier to work through!


  • Lots of truth in that !


  • True. Shifting the mindset of tiredness to thinking of my husband and his needs, or going to bed earlier so I’m not so tired. Not thinking of it as a chore, or something I have to do. I need to shift my mindset.


  • Your comments are so down to earth – if you fantasise about sex then you will probably have a great relationship with your partner. It certainly worked for me in my later relationship which is still going strong.


  • such a god idea to stimulate the senses I was taught to repress ‘nauty thoughts” and made me pensive. gret for relainship to flourish and grow. Young mums especially should take time to with their mateshare love and affection hard but can be rare. I say make time, as goes to quickly I know,wish I had learned this long time ago


  • Lke hz


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