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If your kids are about to get their first gaming console this Christmas, it’s only natural to be nervous about the big, wide world of online gaming.

But as with anything parenting-related, knowledge is power. So we’ve enlisted the help of gaming powerhouse Xbox to share some important information about online gaming, and how you can help keep your kids safe.

Xbox has creating a Gaming Safety Toolkit, to help lift the veil on the world of online gaming, and help parents feel empowered. The Toolkit provides detailed information on supporting kids to game safely and responsibly. It also has age-specific advice and recommendations to help parents learn about common safety risks.

The Toolkit was created with the advice and support of the eSafety Commissioner and the Alannah and Madeline Foundation, as well as other trusted bodies, and includes sections on Parental Controls, Bullying, In-game Purchases and Grooming.

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To get you started on your parental online gaming education journey, here’s an overview of how you can help keep your kids safe while gaming online.

Be involved

When it comes to keeping kids safe while they’re having fun online, one of the most important things we can do as parents, is to be involved. This doesn’t necessarily mean having to learn how to play Fortnite or Roblox, but showing some interest will help kids open up about what they’re doing.

It’s like any other part of your kids’ lives – their sport, schoolwork, dance, art – it’s about showing that you’re involved. And once you’ve become involved, work on co-creating boundaries and rules with your kids, so they feel part of the process.

Promote privacy and good cyber habits

Help your kids realise the importance of online privacy and good cyber hygiene by modelling it yourself. Chat about using strong passwords and multi-factor authentication, as well as thinking carefully about what we share online. A great way to start this conversation is by always asking your kids’ permission before you post anything about them online. The experts at Xbox recommend having a look at Minecraft’s Home Sweet Hmm and Privacy Prodigy games for fun ways to learn about privacy and safety.

Talk about respect

Respect works whether you’re in person or online. Sometimes this is a difficult concept for kids to grasp, when they’re not face to face with the person they’re playing with. But it’s essential to explain that if you wouldn’t say something to someone’s face, you shouldn’t say it online.

Stay calm

It can be easy to loose your cool, but reserve your judgement so that your kids will always feel comfortable talking to you if they need support. Get them to regularly open up to you about when they’re doing online and get involved in their gaming, so they know the lines of communication are always open.

To get your family online gaming safety journey started, download the Xbox Gaming Safety Toolkit.

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  • I’d prefer if my kiddo plays offline games for a long while when he’s older. Nothing wrong with old school Spyro and crash Bandicoot!

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  • The later you delay things, the easier it is. And find games that don’t need internet connection. And do your research (e.g avoid Roblox). Be vigilant & aware of what your kids are doing

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  • Thank you for this, my daughter and I just had a big chat about being safe online.

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  • Such helpful tips

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  • Myself and my partner are big gamers, but I don’t want my kid following in our footsteps. I’ll be making sure my child is well aware of online dangers.

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  • I truly hope my miss 4 isn’t a gamer until she’s way old enough to handle her own. Keyboard warriors are out of control these days.

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  • As an online gamer myself, it absolutely astounds me on some games how terribly people are treated and spoken too (games like Warzone, Call of Duty etc). Ensure you kids know how to deal with people like this or alternative you can shut chat off to party only if they are playing with their friends.

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  • I would only allow this if I was playing too. There’s too many trolls and pitfalls for kids to stumble on

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  • I am so clueless to online gaming as it was never something I was interested in before

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  • That’s great that they are acknowledging that parents need to be more aware. It is scary but the first step is empowering yourself with knowledge!


    • I agree. We need to be there to make sure our children are safe.

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  • Avoid where possible. If you have to, just make sure you’re accompanying kids while they’re playing. At least until they’re old enough

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  • Not a fan of online gaming.

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  • I don’t like online gaming. My boys are too young. Hopefully they don’t like online gaming.

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  • Should be for the older kids and still closely monitored by parents

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  • Not happening in our household unfortunately. It encourages alot.

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  • What you should know: do not allow it

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  • I just hate the idea of online gaming.

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  • The later you allow your children on gaming the better. And lay down boundaries. It’s easier to allow more privileges than to take them away. And always know what your child is playing. Avoid games needing internet access as much as possible

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  • I personally don’t think that kids should have access to this type of thing until they are at least 11. There are so many dangers, not to mention targeted advertising to tempt them to buy extra things.

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  • As an online gamer myself, I sometimes get absolutely appalled with how I hear not only children but adults talk to each other on online gaming platforms. I will ensure to keep open communication with my son when he is old enough so he can come to me with anything he experiences and teach him tools on how to deal with it (as well as monitoring safely myself).

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