Her husband only admitted to having a vasectomy after she had endured three years of fertility treatments…
A devastated woman has posted on Reddit after discovering her husband has had a secret vasectomy The Daily Mail reports. The woman said that she was heartbroken after three years of traumatic fertility treatment was unsuccessful, and blamed her PCOS, until her husband finally told her the truth.
A Betrayal Of Trust
The woman says that the news came as a total shock. “After three years of painful, invasive and expensive fertility treatment, I find out my husband had a vasectomy before we met,” she wrote. “He let me endure 29 negative pregnancy tests and numerous hormone injections and he never thought to tell me.” She says her husband chose to have the procedure to prevent his ex-wife from getting pregnant as he wanted to leave the relationship. “I’ve laid out the options: he gets it reversed, he agrees to me using donor sperm or we get a divorce,” she wrote. “I love him. But I’m broken. And given his lies, I think we are better off not married.” We think that if nothing else, this couple has lost all trust…
Selfish And Thoughtless
Comments on the post said that the woman was right to consider leaving her husband. “This guy is straight up TRASH,” one wrote. “Certified absolute garbage. How do you let someone you supposedly love go through all that?” “I hope she leaves him. This is unbelievable.” said another. “A lot of people I know with PCOS are already very stressed about their chances of being able to conceive and his a**hole made it worse for his wife.”
This husband sounds like he has serious commitment issues! We can only hope that he comes to his senses and decides to be supportive of his wife or has the courage to admit he doesn’t want children whatever the consequences may be.
How would you feel about your husband having a secret vasectomy? Let us know in the comments.