She must agree to lose any future baby weight or run the risk of her husband filing for divorce…

A concerned bride-to-be has taken to Reddit to share her disbelief after her future husband asked her to sign a pre nup agreeing to lose all future baby weight or risk a divorce. While she said she understands why her husband would want a pre nup, as he is a successful surgeon, the future bride believes that his list of demands is completely unreasonable.

In The Family

The list of requirements and demands outlined by the pre nup are almost laughable! “If I cheat on him, I walk away with nothing. Along with that, he put in a clause that stated that I have to lose any weight I gain after childbirth, at least 30lbs of it in the first year following childbirth,” the worried bride wrote. In addition to guidelines around maintaining her physique, her future husband had also stated that for every child she had, she would be entitled to a sum of money. Sounds more than a little dodgy to us! When the bride-to-be shared her concerns with her fiance, she was told to seek legal advice…from his father!

Major Red Flag

Commenters on the post were quick to encourage the bride to put herself first. “What if HE cheats?” said one. “Rip it up. Wave goodbye. Walk off into the sunset and find a guy who wants to protect you in life, not hang you out to dry!” said another. “RED FLAG ALERT. Say bye bye now. Save yourself the legal fees and pain in the long run.”

The bride-to-be replied to comments on the forum saying she had hired her own legal team and was hoping to negotiate a pre nup that was equally beneficial…

Did you sign a pre nup before you got married? Share your story in the comments.

  • No way I’d stay with someone so shallow, let alone sign a document like that.


  • Run away from him as quick as you can!


  • When this is a condition the future husband sets, one should wonder if this would be a good relation.


  • I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship like that at all!! Can she put a clause in saying he has to stay below a Certain weight? How silly if you’re only with someone because of their looks then it will never work anyway. He sounds like a jerk to me


  • She’s done the right thing on hiring her own legal team. But honestly sounds like the marriage will end in divorce if they do go through with it. I’d be putting in my own clause about cheating and weight gain!


  • Time to find a new fiancee!!


  • So unrealistic to make future demands like these especially ones that could contribute to anxiety and stress following the birth of a child.


  • this guy does not love her – she needs to not sign this prenup and move on. There is someone out there who will treat her with more respect than this dirt bag is


  • Ridiculous if this is what your husband expects. This is definitely a warning sign


  • No way!! If that’s the way he is going to treat you he doesn’t really love you. NO babies at all if you still marry the bully.


  • This does not sound like a healthy, unconditional relationship – I’d be questioning whether it’s something I want to sign up for (pun intended!)


  • Oh wow! Personally I would never marry a guy that makes such requests.
    No prenup for me.


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