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If you’ve had a child in the past few years, you’ll know all about CoComelon, and just how popular it is with the toddler set. But there are some mums who claim this innocent kids’ show is triggering tantrums and delaying speech in its target audience.

What started out streaming on YouTube has become a huge Netflix juggernaut, as well as still holding reign as the most-subscribed children’s YouTube channel in the world. There’s no denying that CoComelon’s catchy songs and nursery rhymes are the stuff of toddler dreams.

And most mums love the educational benefits as well as the peace and quiet they get while their tots are glued to the cute characters and music.

But, there’s a growing number of concerned parents who say instead of helping advance their toddler’s learning, CoComelon sent them backwards.

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Mum Sierra shared her story on TikTok, claiming her two-year-old is speech delayed, and ‘addicted’ to Cocomelon. She simply switched to a different YouTube channel – the super popular Songs for Littles with Ms Rachel, and it all changed.

She claims in just two days, “He’s already saying more words and hasn’t had any tantrums.”

It prompted lots of mums to share their own thoughts, with Sara saying, “Cocomelon is so awful for children. It’s over stimulating which can delay a lot of developmental milestones.”

Fellow mum Karly Mathias also detailed her toddler’s behavioural issues after watching CoComelon. She explained that when her toddler Jasper went to his 18-month appointment a few months ago, she was extremely concerned about his speech.

“He was not showing signs that he wanted to talk, and he’s very smart. He knows what you say, but he wasn’t trying to say anything back. I expressed my concern to his paediatrician and she was not concerned at all.” Karly says after doing some research, she decided to cut out CoComelon.

She explained that as a stress-out mum who needed some downtime, she would put CoComelon on every TV in the house.

“When I cut out CoComelon and put on Ms Rachel, he started bursting out with words. He’s not even two yet so of course these aren’t clear words, but me as a mother, I knew what he was trying to say. He started saying ‘oh,oh, knock, knock, mumma, dadda. Like – hello words! And ever since we cut out CoComelon, I have seen the craziest difference. It blows my mind. He doesn’t even have as many tantrums as he used to, he’s calmed down a lot.”

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‘My toddler was ‘addicted’ to CoComelon’

Other mums have shared their stories in forums, revealing just how ‘addicted’ their toddler is to the children’s show. One mum admitting her toddler watched CoComelon for at least three hours a day, and would self-harm if it wasn’t on.

“My two-year-old daughter had become addicted to CoComelon and at first I didn’t think much of it,” the mum revealed on reddit. “She would ask for Coco constantly and stayed glued to the TV. Initially I allowed this because I had a baby and having an infant attached to my body made interacting with my toddler nearly impossible. Of course everything else that comes with a new baby is also a factor. I would estimate that we watched CoComelon for at least three hours a day. The TV was NOT on all day.

“After a couple months I recognised she was becoming increasingly agitated when Coco was not on. She would throw tantrums that would sometimes involve hitting her head with her fist. At this point I reduced Coco time to only a few minutes before breakfast (so I could cook and because it’s the first thing she asks for when she wakes up).

“My baby is five-months-old now and about a month ago (after I was getting sleep and more able to interact with both of them) I decided it was time to cut off Coco. It’s been a whole month of ZERO CoComelon in this house and her head hitting tantrums have stopped, BUT SHE STILL ASKS FOR COCO ALL THE TIME!

“If that’s not a sign of addiction, I don’t know what is.”

The mum says she wishes she’d known just how additive CoComelon is, and she never would have allowed her child to watch it.

However, child experts say the show isn’t to blame for tantrums and speech delay – screen time is.

“It’s not about certain shows over others. The general trend is that there is no benefit to media,” clinical psychologist Daniel Marullo, Ph.D. told Romper.

He explained that studies into the impact of watching TV on language and social development on young toddlers found that it doesn’t help with development.

“Research shows that the shows they watch need to have high-quality educational content, and not all shows have educational content, let alone high-quality. For those younger kids under two, playing and social interaction are key to social, language, and physical development.”

Do your toddlers watch CoComelon? Do you think it impacts their behaviour? Let us know in the comments below.

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  • Having listened to just the one song, I do not understand how anyone can have this played very often on a screen to a child. It is most annoying to my ears, and I would have to listen to it as well as the child. So pleased it wasn’t around when my children were young.

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  • Cocomelon is annoying and you have to be seriously uninvolved with what you let your kid watch if you ever thought it was educational. It’s good for 3 and 4 year olds to learn new songs and that’s about it. If your kid is “addicted” to it, that’s your fault period. The show doesn’t play itself. If you’re interested in truly educational yet super fun show check out Steve and Maggie. My daughter’s vocabulary increased rapidly with Steve leading the lessons disguised as play time. He’s a genius. Check it out. You won’t regret it. Bonus : your kid may develop the cutest British accent and start saying this like trousers and petrol.

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  • So interesting, there’s always something to blame for kids being behind in milestones. Every child grows and develops at different paces.

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  • I don’t let my little one watch any scenes except when we FaceTime family.

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  • It’s children’s cocaine. Why is it so addictive? We have limited screen time and I usually put Spanish chickies on. So there som kind of learning happening.

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  • A friend of mine just shared this with me, my son is 21 months and delayed in speech and walking. He is so addicted to coco and would not eat or do anything if coco is not put on, he will have serious tantrum when you turn off coco. They even call him little coco????????. I am so concerned and doing everything possible to help him, he has three therapist appointments every week. I’m so glad my friend shared this with me and I will make sure I completely cut off coco and see how it goes. I will also bring back feedback to you guys. Thanks so much for this helpful information and I pray every mom going through this with their toddlers finds this helpful.

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  • Interesting point of view . Maybe it’s true….

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  • This show drives me crazy.

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  • The accents in this show are awful. So harsh for little ears.

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  • not a fan of the show

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  • My boys would watch Sesame Street of a morning before going to school and playgroup. It meant they had to be all ready to go before the television went on. It meant they would have breakfast, bags ready and all dressed ready to walk out the door on time. I’m happy to say they never got addicted to any television shows

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  • I remember Teletubbies being blamed for a child’s lack of speech only for experts to say toddlers related to Teletubbies babble as it is how they communicated themselves. I think it’s more about the screen time and lack of other activity than the actual programming. Most kids shows today are based on educational value etc to pass screening laws so perhaps less screen time.

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  • Kids in article have a lot of screen time. Maybe that is part of the issue?

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  • The toddlers imitate whay they see. Parents should not allow screentime to kids if they want them to progress more. Real play and talking to them helps them develop the skills. Screentime destroys their eyes.

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  • I really don’t think cocomelon is to blame here…

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