The world is full of diverse opportunities and under the conditions of growing globalization, the number of families moving overseas is constantly increasing.

The reasons for the relocation could be various. But it’s better to think twice before taking a life-changing step. Once kids come along in our life we are responsible for all decisions we make for them. Moving abroad with children is challenging and daunting, but we have prepared a parent’s guide for a successful transition.

If you plan to move to another country, follow these simple tips. You will smooth the relocation and it will become the most exciting experience for everyone.

How to get prepared for moving abroad

1. Find a place to work

Preparation to move requires a lot of time and efforts.

First of all, develop a job search strategy. Get familiar with overseas jobs and think which one you would like to pursue. Once you have decided on the country and your work field, start working on creating your resume. It should meet country standards and company’s culture.

Nowadays there exist diverse resume templates. For some professions, such as designers, artists, writers, etc. an outstanding resume might be a big win, so have a look at creative resume examples and find the one that will fit you.

2. Be ready to overcome language barrier

Your main goal is to acquire some basic conversational skills, so start learning a new language right now. It will make the transition much easier.

Speaking of babies and toddlers, you don’t even have to worry – they are more adaptable and open to all changes. Kids will gain all necessary language skills at kindergarten and later at school, whereas older children are less flexible so it’s better to pay extra attention to learning.

3. Networking is important

Build your network, it is crucial if you want to move abroad. Research some professional organisations or college alumni. They can help you in job-search and in developing other contacts. You can take advantage and ask them questions concerning the culture of a country in order to better understand it.

4. Prepare for the interview

Getting a job overseas is a long way. After you applied, be ready to have the global interview. You will probably deal with emails, telephone calls, video conferences etc.

They will assess all your abilities, qualification, experience and language skills. Prove that you are the best fit for this position. Stay enthusiastic, confident and believe in your success.

5. Take care of Visa questions

Generally, employers help their personnel to get an appropriate Visa. But if you are supposed to do this, contact your country’s embassy and get the information on all Visa requirements (for your children as well), as they vary from country to country.

6. Think of your new home

It is of paramount importance to find the right place to live. Every detail counts, so you should consider everything – distance to work, the school location etc. Think in advance what family items you will bring with you. Involve your kids – decide together which pictures, decorations, toys to bring in order to make your new home cozy and familiar for both parents and children.

Better not to put this on the long finger and handle Visa question in advance.

7. Cultural code

Nobody says that integration into a new country will be easy. But cultural and social change is extremely beneficial. This new experience will broaden your horizons, but first, you need to learn more about your new country. Explore all the peculiarities and aspects of life there.

How to prepare your children for the transition

1. Tell about your plans

If you resolve to move abroad, the first thing to do for you is to prepare your children. Tell them about the future relocation. They need some time to get used to the idea that they have to leave.

2. Answer the questions

Of course, children will ask you a bunch of questions. They want to know why they leave everything and move abroad. They want to know all the details. Keep patience and answer each question they ask.

It is hugely important for them to understand and accept these life changes.

3. Encourage and search for information with kids

The only thought of moving to a new country is stressful for kids. In order to make the relocation not so painful, try to encourage them. Do some research together. Explore some interesting facts about a new country, its culture and cuisine. Spark their interest and kids will be curious to move.

4. Think about education process and extra activities

Research the school and learn all the information about the enrollment process details and when applications are submitted. Get in touch with faculty prior to arrival. When school starts, try to involve children in diverse activities (drama classes, dance club etc.). It will be easier to make new friends, to adjust to a new school.

Additionally, it will ensure their personal growth.

5. Keep in touch with people you’re leaving

Modern technologies allow for communicating with people around the globe. Stay engaged through the telephone or via the Internet. Make video sessions, call and send your relatives and friends photos. Let your children do the same thing – keeping in touch with people they love will soften the relocation.

6. Let your kids help you and make own decisions

From the very beginning make them feel the part of the moving process. Ask their opinion and advice. It matters as much as yours!

7. Listen to their needs!

Children are so susceptible to all life changes. One wrong step can turn the whole moving process into a nightmare. Listen to what your children want, not you. No one knows their needs better than they do!

As you can see, moving abroad can become the best lifetime experience. Follow these useful tips for emigrating with children. Create the sense of excitement about your new home, it will be a pleasure for your family.

Have you migrated internationally with children? Share your experience with us below! 

  • We moved with out 9 month old baby from one side of Australia to the other. That was massive enough!

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  • It is very important to keep these things in mind whether you are migrating abroad or locally. Great article.

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  • I am just moving back to the city 3 hours away and that’s stressful enough!

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  • The effect on kids has to be a high priority.

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  • All good points to consider. Yes we moved from Northern Ireland to Australia. We booked a furnished appartment upon arrival in awaiting for our stuff to arrive, from there in a home from a family who went on holiday while we were house hunting and next found our own place all in good timing. The kids adapted well and excited about the changes.

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  • The cultural code is so important and have done it and loved it – incredible learning and lifetime experience in every way.

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  • My husband and I moved with our three kids from Canada to Australia. We stayed in a holiday house for a few months to give time for our furniture and stuff to arrive. Kids loved it as it felt like a holiday and then they transitioned well.

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  • What a great leap it would be. I can’t imagine even moving interstate, let alone overseas. Brave and courageous though, those that do it.


    • It is quite exciting and it gives you such a good appreciation of home when you get back – loved living overseas, but loved being back too – terrific country for children and families.

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  • such brave families to move overseas. I would love to but am way to ‘chicken’ to do it, even though I think it would be a great experience for all.

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  • Very brave of families to move to another country.

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  • Yes, we did. The first time our daughter wasn’t even 3 years old and it wasn’t a big deal for her. She loved the adventure and looking for a new house together, going for the first time to preschool, having to talk English every day. The second time she was almost 6. The language was no problem, but getting to leave friends was a lot more difficult that time. But we were coming to Australia, that she had already seen on holidays, so she knew she would have loved it. And she did. We all did! :-)

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