Man Discovers Wife's Torrid Affair Via Dyson Product

A man has paid tribute to his high-tech Dyson fan for helping to alert him about the secret affair that his wife was having.

He said that if it wasn’t for his ‘kick ass fan’ that he got from his brother-in-law for Christmas, he would never have discovered that his wife was entangled in an intimate relationship with another man.

The man shared on Reddit that he was updating the filter app for the Dyson fan on his wife’s phone, when a suspicious message popped up on the screen.

“Asked wife if I could use her phone to update the app, in order to reset the change filter alert,” he wrote.

Affair Exposed

“As I was finding the app on her phone, a notification popped up. My stomach dropped immediately as I read the small tag: ‘I’ll bring the special toy’, it said.”

“My brain understood the words, but my mind just stopped functioning,” the shocked man said.

The husband decided not to tell his wife that he has seen the message and then started looking into her phone log.

Under the covers

The man managed to access his wife’s Whatsapp messages on another device and found that the illicit affair had been going on for over 18 months.

“There are at least 15,000 messages, memes, flirty pics and some x-rated ones too,” he said.

“Three nights ago, lying in bed next to me rubbing my back while I went to sleep … she messaged him and sexted him lying next to me,” he shared, appalled at his sordid discovery.

“It’s a younger man from work. He is married and has three young children. He and his wife have Facebook. I’ve met him twice. Shook his hand.

I Wish It Was A Bad Dream

“I desperately want this to be a bad dream. She’s said terrible things about me. She’s told him my insecurities. She’s told him ‘I love you.’

However, the man said that it didn’t seem that the pair had made any long term plans so he assumes that it’s a “purely sexual relationship.”

“It almost makes it better, but also makes it so much worse. Like she’s literally throwing away our life for this.

“She knows cheating is an absolute deal breaker for me.”

The End!

The scorned man has consulted a lawyer, confronted his wife and is moving forward with a divorce.

“She cried and pleaded that she could explain,” he said.

The husband said that he also contacted the other man’s wife through Facebook, and sent her a copy of all the messages he had dug up. But he handed heard back as yet.

While the husband contemplates his future, he said he has to thank Dyson for helping to uncover his wife’s betrayal.

“I again need to thank Dyson for their app,” he said.

How would you react if you saw an illicit message pop up on your partner’s phone? Tell us in the comments below.

35 Comments

- - meedee said
  - 03 Dec 2023
    8:49 am
Best he find out before they had children. It makes for an easier split.

- - mom112217 said
  - 24 Jan 2021
    1:35 pm
I feel sorry for the man! Move on l say!

- - mom19782016 said
  - 19 Oct 2020
    2:23 pm
How awful for him to discover it that way, and to have that going on at all.

- - BellaB said
  - 18 Oct 2020
    6:58 pm
Everything is watching you these days….

- - MillyMollyMandy said
  - 07 Oct 2020
    8:14 pm
Hmmm doesn’t really sound legit! Sounds like something an advertising exec dreamed up for Dyson. No woman is dumb enough to have an app for a fan (his fancy fan) installed on their favourite cheating device and then happily turn it over to be busted with! And what sort of energy does this woman have anyway – who could be bothered with two husbands?!! If this was true, then I feel sorry for the children and innocent spouses but 18 months is waaayyyy too much to forgive!

- - Frankiielot said
  - 05 Oct 2020
    9:59 pm
Wow! 18 months is a long time.
If she wasn’t happy with him then she should’ve just dumped him and moved on.
Seems like they were both just in a comfort zone with their relationships and having an affair was much easier than going through a messy breakup.

- - tessie said
  - 30 Sep 2020
    12:28 pm
I can honestly say that I would have been very shocked if this had happened to me. My late husband never cheated on me except when it came to fishing. He was the love of my life and my soulmate.

- - rovermum said
  - 30 Sep 2020
    10:24 am
OMG. There’s no way she can defend that or explain it away. 18 months. Infidelity is a dealbreaker for me. There’s no way back.

- - mom418449 said
  - 29 Sep 2020
    12:41 pm
Nothing to do with his Dyson, but the story does draw you in!
- Lovesthecuddles replied
  
  01 Oct 2020 , 9:07 pm
  Haha that’s what I was thinking.
  - Mum2archer replied
    
    01 Oct 2020 , 10:00 pm
    
    agree lol
- - sars_angelchik said
  - 29 Sep 2020
    9:11 am
Wow, how could anyone even come close to explaining that! Glad he’s able to get out now, maybe he’ll find someone more deserving!

- - shanika said
  - 29 Sep 2020
    8:30 am
Interesting story to read.

- - Mumofboys said
  - 29 Sep 2020
    8:23 am
Poor guy, I would have done the same thing if I was him, divorce, and told the other person what was going on, I would 100% want to know if that was me. Cheating is my deal breaker.

- - mom457469 said
  - 29 Sep 2020
    7:32 am
He should not be checking her phone messages as it is an invasion of privacy
Look out Dyson you may be in Court over this breach of the privacy act
- Ellen replied
  
  29 Sep 2020 , 7:54 am
  True, I’m never in my husband’s phone and he’s never in mine, unless I’m asking him to solve a problem (as he’s handier with phones & computers than I am myself). The article says he was updating the filter app for the Dyson fan on his wife’s phone…you never know, but maybe she asked him to do this ?
- - mom101628 said
  - 28 Sep 2020
    11:56 pm
I really detest social media – this poor man who was duped. This poor woman who wasn’t having a good relationship with her husband. If social media wasn’t around maybe they could have talked things out together.
- Ellen replied
  
  29 Sep 2020 , 7:49 am
  True !
- - ~Loui~ said
  - 28 Sep 2020
    11:17 pm
18 months !!!!! I hope he got to keep the fan.

- - mom293526 said
  - 28 Sep 2020
    8:12 pm
She was stupid to let her husband use her phone – unless she wanted him to find out

- - mom93821 said
  - 28 Sep 2020
    5:42 am
I can only imagine it must have been quite a sickening discovery. Unfaithful behaviour causes devastation far and wide.
- Ellen replied
  
  29 Sep 2020 , 7:57 am
  It does, it destroys relationships
  - mom93821 replied
    
    30 Sep 2020 , 1:35 pm
    
    It must be truly devastating when families get destroyed in this way,
- - mom460223 said
  - 26 Sep 2020
    6:08 am
I could think of nothing worse. Two families torn apart 🙁

- - Forgetful Mumma said
  - 25 Sep 2020
    10:19 pm
When I read the message said I’ll bring that special toy, my first thought was maybe it was a child’s toy so how can that cause suspicion, unless of course they do not have any children, but then you would also be thinking maybe they texted the wrong person and would question that. His mind going directly to my wife is cheating, makes me think he was already suspicious in the first place. As it was ongoing for 18 months, I feel he was right in getting a divorce

- - babymumma said
  - 25 Sep 2020
    8:52 am
I would probably do the same thing if I was in the same boat. I’m just a little confused about why he doesn’t have the app on his phone though. And also do other couples not share the same iTunes account, or whatever Samsung has?