I would be insisting you go with her to her next appointment. This is not a normal reaction at all and heaven help you after the baby is born if something isn’t done now. Good luck.

No, you don’t have to ‘deal with that’ You deserve to be spoken to like a human being. Yes hormones are real, but this sounds like more, maybe a trip to the Drs is needed

Wow, that’s just pure disrespectful on her behalf. Yes there are pregnancy hormones but to be abusive is not on. I remember being grumpy every so often and even crying when I was tired and waiting for my pavlova to cool down so I could eat it. Everyones hormones can react differently so hopefully this mum to be gets some professional help before the baby comes.

Yes, pregnancy hormones are a thing but this isn’t normal. It sounds like she needs to see her GP and request a mental health plan..

I’ve never heard this level of abuse by a pregnant woman. You can’t blame the pregnancy hormones, sorry! Being a decent human being should be the aim and sadly this pregnancy experience is being ruined for you both. I think she needs to talk to someone professionally, even if it’s just her GP.

Please get your wife to seek mental health assessment and help. If it wasn’t there prior to pregnancy it may be bringing out underlying issues, hormonal or something else. It is essential to get on top of this early, especially with postpartum hormonal changes and the load of having a newborn to ensure PPD/PPA doesn’t set in. Best of luck

Maybe the pregnancy is bringing out a different undiagnosed hormonal issue. Pregnancy hormones wouldn’t impact you that bad. Attend her next doc appointment and bring it up there to be looked into.

There is no way it would make her that bad. Maybe she needs to speak to her doctor to find out what’s going on. Maybe next time you want a coffee, tell her you’re going out for coffee so you don’t make her feel sick. Don’t pick anything up off the floor that isn’t yours, just tell her you didn’t know where it went. I know when I was pregnant I’d get weepy for no reason but she is just over the top. I wish you the best for the next few month.

I think it’s a load of poo and just an excuse. I’ve had 2 pregnancies and never stooped to such an extreme. Yes, you can sometimes get emotional, but I do not understand that level of aggression. Were there signs of this before pregnancy? Was she just holding it in before?

The crude language is totally not needed. I think she needs some counselling to address her anger.

This sounds like an awful environment to live in and definitely not justified by hormones. It will be worse once the baby is born and she has hormones to deal with and extreme tiredness.

Absolutely no excuse for this level of aggression and it is definitely abusive.
Mood wings yes, being a miserable cow, no.

No excuse. Sounds like a piece of work using this as an excuse. She needs to do some damage control sooner rather than later. Perhaps get professional help.

Zero excuse. This type of behaviour is not acceptable.
You need to tell her that she needs to seek help if she doesnt stop this behaviour will become ingrained and will continue.
Good luck….you deserve better treatment.

This is not okay and not normal even with pregnancy hormones making you crazy!