It must be hard for all concerned.

Hope you are happy

This must be so hard for everyone.

it sreally ahrd when your not in love no one understands but yourself e come to life only once i m on your side

nice to read stories on this great site

This is terrible, things happen, life is not perfect, we have a situation in our family, I am one of 4 girls and one of my sisters chose to leave her husband, she did meet someone else within 12 mnths and has had another child, so 14 years between her last 2 children, however some of the family took the husbands side and wiped my sister off, so basically our family is split we no longer have family get togethers, Christmas etc, which is a shame as we were very close, now it is my sister that separated and me, and the other two who decided to be judgemental about her choices, even my parents have commented that they have never seen her as happy as she is now, and as they said at the time, no matter what she has done she is their daughter and will always have their support even if they do not agree with what she has done, in hindsight she did the right thing, she was not happy in her marriage and no one else knows what goes on in a relationship, I hope that you and your partner find peace together, don’t worry about anyone else it is their loss, look after yourself and your partner, you are the most important, it always amazes me that people can choose to pass judgement on others when you never know when your own circumstances may change.

Family situations can be very complicated, and so many people have been hurt or are hurting by what has happened. Hope you can all heal and move forward from this

Family situations can be very complicated.

Your happiness is all that counts, very tough situation for all

Good luck with everything a very tough situation

Firstly well done for living your life with the person you want to and love deeply.
I really dont understand some people especially families as all they say they ever want is to see their children or siblings happy with their lives.
Why would any parent want to see their own child in a unhappy relationship, its not like you were having an affair with your then brother in law you both waited until you were out of your marriages.
I really hope you both just say bugger the families and live a long and happy life together.

Good luck with everything, it’s a tough situation.

It’s hard that even you’re own family can’t accept you. That must be exceptionally difficult.

I couldn’t even imagine what you’re going through. Put it this way if I was married to my husband for many years and we had a family together only for it to end and he ended up with my sister it would be the most heart breaking thing. It would be more forgiving if you ended up with his friend but since it’s his brother it’s the ultimate betrayal. It’s hard for them to see how truly happy you are because they are still disgusted with how it all turned out but there’s not much that can be done but just give it time. As long as your own family is happy, safe and loved then that’s all that matters. They may or may not come around but just focus on your own little family and you’ll get through. Wish you all the best