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An upset mum has reported her daughter’s teacher, after discovering the student was being made to eat lunch in another room because her food is ‘smelly’.

The six-year-old had started asking her mum to pack lunches similar to what the other students were eating, which prompted her to admit she was banned from eating lunch with her classmates.

“Recently she told me she didn’t want her packed lunches anymore and what to eat what the other kids were eating,” the mum explained on reddit. “She had been not wanting to eat what were her favourite foods and opting for asking for pizza more.

“I asked her why she didn’t to eat her favourite foods anymore and she told me she wanted to be able to sit with the other students. I was shocked because I didn’t know she wasn’t sitting with the other students and she told me it was because her teacher made her sit in the other room by herself during lunch times because she brought ‘smelly foods’.”

‘We don’t want her distracting other students’

The situation resurfaced unpleasant feelings for the little girl’s mum, who had dealt with something similar when she was at school.

“To be clear growing up I was also targeted by teachers who wouldn’t let me bring shrimp or anything with garlic or onion because they hated the smell. So I try not to pack anything that could cause them to target my child like spam sushi or egg fried rice. I was really upset because she is half Chinese but she clearly looks Asian and I felt it was my childhood trauma happening on her.”

The concerned mum decided to confront the teacher about the upsetting lunch situation.

“I called up her home room teacher for a meeting and the teacher said they didn’t make her sit in the other room to eat but my daughter told me to ask her best friend who confirmed for me that yes she had been.

“Another teacher confirmed her had seen her eating alone and her home room teacher switched stories that she had but it was because my daughter brought a persimmon to school and it was distracting the other kids because they thought she was eating a tomato and she didn’t want her distracting the other students by having ‘foreign’ food.

“She refused to believe it was inappropriate and said she didn’t see anything wrong with sending her to eat by herself. I had to go to the principle and take my daughter to another home room to finish up the school year because that teacher said it only happened once despite my daughter swearing up and down it happened every few days for weeks before she told me.

“She told me specifically of a time she brought tomato egg stir fry and a boy bullying her because it looked like blood and the teacher sending her to eat in the other room rather than telling him to stop. My husband doesn’t believe her saying the teachers would have said something because sending her to eat by herself but I don’t think he understands because he is white.”

Now the mum is wondering whether she was wrong for reporting the teaching. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.

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  • Poor kid. That is excluding and not fair at all.

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  • This is sad. That poor little girl. I think the teacher was very wrong in doing what she did. I remember years ago bringing salami bread rolls to school and the other kids making fun of me.

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  • That’s awful isolating a child like that. She’s missing out on valuable social skills being ostracised like that

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  • It wrong for the teacher to do that but I think smelly food should be avoided eating in public.

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  • Absolutely not wrong of you to report the teacher! I’m fuming on your and your kids’ behalf for the lack of respect the teacher has for other cultures, basic teaching skills (not stopping the bullying) and for the lying she did when she was caught out. Terrible! I’m sorry you had to change rooms but that’s probably the best thing done in this situation. Sorry that your hubby doesn’t understand what you both have gone through, though I would have hoped that he would believe his own child especially if she claims that it’s happened multiple times and with confirmation from other teachers etc.

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  • That is disgusting behaviour of a teacher. She should be punishing the bully or even herself in this case

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  • No one should ever be excluded…ar any age….disgusting to hear this

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  • I am so surprised because inclusion is so important and I do not understand exclusion.

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  • Her teacher should be ashamed to treat a child this way.

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  • That is ridiculous! Why would the teachers not use this as an education tool for diversity and inclusion?

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  • This is beyond abhorrent behaviour by the teacher, This is an opportunity to teach diversity, inclusion and acceptance. I hope this child does not have ongoing trauma from this.

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  • This is so sad and that poor student being made to sit apart from the others. Shame on this teacher for doing that

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  • What an awful teacher! What an awful thing to do! I remember my smelly sardine sandwiches in primary school, I was never isolated for them

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  • I would have done the same if this had been my child. It’s just another form of bullying from a teacher who should know better. I may have had doubts at first but this teacher changed their story when faced so there’s definitely something going on here.

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  • It sounds pretty bad and I would be interested to hear from the school but I also wonder how accurate this article is in its reporting.

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