‘Absolutely nothing’ sang Edwin Starr in 1970. Of course he was referring to fighting them – and this I agree with whole-heartedly – but when it comes to teaching our children about these events which mar the pages of history, it’s more like absolutely everything.

So, with the centenary of the Gallipoli this year, here’s why it’s worth taking a few moments to talk about war with your children around April 25.

Inspire respect and gratitude

Though now 100 years ago, the children of today are still indebted – just as we are – to the generation that was all but torn apart by the Great War.

And as few from that generation live to tell their story first hand (certainly none that experienced overseas warfare) it is the duty of those who have learnt about it to pass down the stories, and the respect that they ignite. And the generation that I speak of is worldwide.

With the jingoistic nationalism that the Anzac legend tends to create, it can be easy to forget to acknowledge those that the war was fought against!

Fortunately, it is not hard at all to find accounts by the ‘enemy’ that show that these soldiers were no different from our own, and deserve the same esteem.

War memorials serve to display the gravity of war. Take a walk to your local memorial and read some of the names engraved. A few hundred or thousand can seem insignificant when spoken – even when referring to lives lost – until you see them all written out in one place and the vast space required to list them.

Breed empathy

Empathy is arguably our most important social skill, integral in building positive relationships and communities. While it is a natural skill, it can be hard for children to exercise regarding an event of such enormity.

When teaching young kids about the war it can be easy to shy away from the reality and gravity of the situation that hundreds of thousands of young men and women found themselves in. But it is exactly these sobering details that need to be relayed to encourage empathy from children who otherwise could not possibly imagine what transpired, and how.

One way to help cultivate empathy is to humanise those involved. With names and faces given to soldiers and nurses, they become real human beings – like dad, mum or uncle John – and not just one of a battalion.

Research one particular person and talk about the war through their own experience of it.

Another idea is to read a piece of historical fiction about this time told through the eyes of a child of a similar age to yours. It is much easier to empathise when a common factor, such as age, comes into play. In particular, look out for ANZAC Biscuits by Phil Cummings and Owen Swan (suitable for Grades 1 – 5) and Evan’s Gallipoli by Kerry Greenwood (suitable for Grade 6 – 8).

Make the war to end all wars a reality

World War I was the ‘war to end all wars’ except that… it wasn’t. Nor was the next one or the one after that. Could it be that the war to end wars never does because the ones that preceded it are never sufficiently taught?

Those who recognise the significance of war, its causes and its repercussions, would surely create the sort of leaders and civilians who would do everything in their power to keep it from happening again.

Teaching the war, huh, yeah, what is good for?

Absolutely everything.

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  • My dad was in the army as was my father in law. So my kids grew up,with lots of war stories, attending ANZAC marches etc Then my son enlisted, so the tradition continues


  • Very interesting! Thanks for sharing this!


  • Good article. I do not agree with war but the sacrifice of our soldiers that created the country we have today should be remembered and respected
    ~ Lest we forget ~


  • Great advice, it’s not an easy subject to explain to little people.


  • A really good and well written article thanks


  • Great article, i hope the up and coming leaders in our beautiful country are well educated and never have to resort to a war.


  • i love just absolutly reading these


  • My children are right into war and the military as they had a great grandfather who fought in WWII. I’ve tried really hard to explain that it was not all glory and victory as it really is difficult to say that war of any kind is “good”


  • this is just great


  • It is difficult to gain sympathy from children because they have little experience to relate it to. Still very important though.


  • I think it’s important to recognise why we enter wars. Often, it isn’t the people themselves but our leaders deciding for us. Thinking about more recent wars, it is important for children and adults to questions the futility of war on both sides. Much of war seems to territorial fighting for resources, examples of which can be seen in the Middle East (during the Bush administration) and the fight for oil. The human loss is devastating and in many cases, the people themselves do not want war. We have to question our leaders and the policies they create on our behalf and the way that affects us as a nation. Many young men were or still are conscripted and did not, or not wish to enter a war. It is against our best interests to enter any further conflicts due to the human loss we can incur. I feel for the nations currently at war because of the politics behind the war creating the conflicts in the first place.


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  • it is really great to read


  • My brother’s a digger now, and did 2 tours in Afghanistan. We are so proud of him, and hubby and I are making sure that our two girls know about ANZAC day, and why we remember it. Lest We Forget.


  • great article- thanks for sharing. ANZAC Day is an important part of our family tradition as my pop was a POW. I have already started to introduce my kids (2 & 4) to what this means for us today. Obviously it is difficult for them to understand, but i have just started simple and will teach them more as they mature. I think every person needs to be aware of reality of war and what our diggers go through/have gone through for our freedom and safety.


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