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Family Court decision sparks debate over when the line between discipline becomes abuse when it comes to punishing children.

A father, who had beaten his two eldest children with a cricket bat leaving them with bruises and welts, has been granted unsupervised visits with his six-year-old son.

The young boy’s mother is opposed to her estranged husband having any contact with their boy.

Both she and the father had previously smacked the boy, the Family Court in Newcastle heard. But the mother claimed he was at risk of physical abuse if left with the father, because of the way the man punished his older sons from a previous relationship.

SMH reports, under the NSW Crimes Act, “the defence of lawful correction permits a parent, or someone acting with their authority, to punish a child with physical force. But the force must be reasonable in light of the child’s age, health and maturity, as well as their alleged misbehaviour. Force applied to any part of the child’s head or neck, or elsewhere on their body in a way likely to cause harm “for more than a short period”, is not considered reasonable.”

The court heard that from around the time they were aged six or seven, the father hit his two eldest sons with a cricket bat and once left them with bruises and welts after beating them with a broken broom handle. In what judge Stewart Austin called a description of “cruel brutality”, a sibling recalled hearing the boys beg for mercy and scream with pain, saw the bat used with such force it broke and saw welts on the boys’ bottoms.

The boys are both now in their early teens and in state care.

Justice Austin said it was necessary “to differentiate between physical ‘discipline’ and physical ‘abuse'”.

“Despite modern society’s changing opinion about the morality of corporal punishment of children, the law of NSW still envisages the legitimate administration of physical discipline by an adult to a child, subject to certain constraints,” he said. “It is only when the discipline transcends those constraints that it becomes abusive and ceases to be lawful correction.”

The judge granted the father unsupervised visits with his six-year-old son, ruling it was in the child’s best interests.

The father was not “so unfit as a parent that he is utterly incapable of safely caring for the child for short stints”, Justice Austin said. He noted that the father had undergone parenting courses and the little boy was unlikely to be as challenging as his older stepbrothers.

Earlier this year a father’s conviction for smacking his 12-year-old son was overturned, with a court ruling that causing pain during discipline does not “transform” a parent into a criminal.

Justice Peek said, “If one can ever safely say that something is as old as mankind, that something might be parental correction of children,” he said. “There has long been a fundamental question as to the extent to which the law should intrude into such areas. While it may be that some children … may be too old for physical parental correction, such an argument does not extend to a 12-year-old boy.”

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  • Unless the laws in SA have changed he would have “got the book thrown at him” with charges.
    Child Abuse. If he yelled at them even if he doesn’t use inappropriate words is verbal abuse.
    The children have probably suffered phycological abuse too. The boys may have suffered injuries which may not be immediately found unless they do xrays. The bones in their bottoms could be badly bruised and cause ongoing discomfort. I fell and landed on mine. There was no cracked or broken bones but it still gives me discomfort at times…..Seems some states need to upgrade their laws in these circumstances.

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  • With a cricket bat? You can hit another adult and be charged for that! You can hit your wife and be charged for that! Why are there different rules for kids???

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  • What is it called when an adult “smacks” another adult with a cricket bat? That adult would get charged but a father doing that to a child doesn’t?

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  • Using a cricket bat is abuse, assault… It’s a world away from a smack, and most of us don’t feel too good about that, even when we recognise that sometimes there seems no other recourse.

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  • Using any implement to hit your children is child abuse. I wouldn’t let him near the children again unsupervised.

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  • Using a cricket bat is child abuse.

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  • How absurd that there needs to be an article about this. MOre common sense is required it seems.

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