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At least 25 percent of all deliveries are by Caesarean section. Yet there is still so much conflicting information around.

Birmingham-based gynaecologist Gabrielle Downey busts the most common myths even the most experienced mothers believe.

In a piece for Healthista, she explains the truth behind most of the myths – and which ones are false, Daily Mail shares.

1. ‘ONCE A CAESAREAN ALWAYS A CAESAREAN’

No. You can have a vaginal delivery if you wish—70 per cent of women are successful the second time around.

The main risk is scar rupture, but it only happens to one in 200 women with a previous Caesarean section.

The risk of scar rupture increases with the number of previous Caesareans you have had, however, you may be advised to have a planned Caesarean.

2. ‘YOU DON’T BOND WITH YOUR BABY AS WELL’

I think the only time this may be true is a general anaesthetic Caesarean as you do not get to see the baby being born and you are much more ‘out of it’ from the drugs for a number of hours.

In reality, I don’t think that the bond of mother and child is solely dependent on which body part the baby exited from.

Most maternity units practice ‘skin-to-skin’ as soon as possible with mum and baby even if the birth was by Caesarean. Nature does what it needs to do.

3. ‘YOU CAN’T BREASTFEED’

Yes, you can.

The baby is usually put to your breast (if you wish) within 15 minutes of the end of the procedure.

The midwife will advise the most comfortable positions.

4. ‘YOU CAN’T WALK FOR DAYS’

You will be out of bed the next day, but your mobility will be reduced compared to a vaginal birth.

The scar is painful when getting out of bed, off a chair and twisting.

This reduces with time, although the time varies for each woman. Don’t be a martyr and avoid pain relief.

Avoid anything that puts pressure on the scar, but this is trial and error.

5. ‘YOU CAN’T DRIVE FOR SIX WEEKS’

You can actually drive whenever you want, as long as you feel in control of your vehicle, can do an emergency stop safely and there is no clause on your insurance that says otherwise.

6. ‘YOUR MUSCLES TAKE LONG TO RECOVER’

They do not as the muscles are not cut at Caesarean but gently pushed apart.

Any lack of tone is as a result of the pregnancy, not the delivery.

Take your time to recover and build up your exercise gently – walk with the pram at first.

7. EMOTIONAL DISTRESS IS GREATER IF YOU ‘FAILED AS A MOTHER’

This gets me mad as what makes you a ‘good mum’? It is certainly not the way the baby came into the world.

Enter pregnancy with the aim of delivering a healthy baby and remain healthy yourself in order to care for him or her.

That should be your primary aim, so don’t let yourself be bullied or blackmailed into thinking anything else is more important.

8. YOU WILL NOT HAVE A CHOICE OF TYPE OF DELIVERY NEXT TIME

You always have a choice; it just has to be an informed choice, being aware of all the risks and benefits.

Whichever way the baby comes out, be proud of yourself.

You have grown this baby from an embryo, kept it safe for nine months and brought it into the world.

Dr. Gabrielle Downey is a Birmingham-based consultant gynaecologist. She has been a consultant gynaecologist at the Birmingham City Hospital for over 15 years. Dr. Downey publishes regularly in renowned journals and writes for medical textbooks, was a co-author to the current NHS cervical smear program and has specialist expertise in problems such as abnormal smears among many other conditions.

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  • great article and luckily i haven’t had to deal with this! feel sympathy for the mums that do

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  • Thanks for sharing your aticle.

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  • Great that these myths are busted. I had a natural birth after an emergency Caesar, and breastfed me Caesar baby as well.

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  • I’m glad I never had to have a caesarean. I always imagined it would be a long and painful recovery

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  • Thanks for this information on Caesareans – it is good to bust the myths.

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  • sVery few Mums and babies have hours of skin to skin immediately after birth. Yes, they can have some but baby has to be checked, cleaned up at some point and weighed. Were it not be for c-sections some Mums and babies simply wouldn’t survive as happened in the 1800s and early 1900s

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  • I hate people who say you need a natural birth and hours of skin to skin immediately afterwards to bond with your baby. That thing lived inside you for 9 months! You know it better than anyone else on earth and you are its whole entire world. You’re already bonded long before it comes out, no matter how it comes out!!

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