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Children as young as five are displaying worrying sexualised behaviour across Australian schools.

These are the findings of newly published research in the journal Sex Education which also revealed teachers find it hard to distinguish between students subject to sexual abuse and those who have adopted such trends from television and the internet, reports Daily Mail.

More than 100 teachers from government, independent and Catholic primary schools across Australia were asked regarding their experiences with children’s problematic sexual behaviours and how they dealt with the issue.

Dr Lesley-Anne Ey of University of South Australia led the study which revealed 40 per cent of teachers interviewed had witnessed problematic sexual behaviour in schools.

This included students simulating intercourse, attempting to lead other students into sexual conduct, and in one case, a 10-year-old threatened to rape other students.

Teachers had no issue reporting such behaviours but struggled with dealing with those children appropriately.

Worryingly teachers have problems identifying children in need of help from sexual abuse, as the numbers of pupils imitating sexual behaviours from music videos and adverts rises.

Dr Ey revealed teachers should have sufficient training to be able to deal with such issues.

‘If kids are acting out inappropriately, whatever the reason, it’s a problem. But the issue for many teachers is knowing how to respond to what they see,’ Dr Ey told Fairfax Media. 

‘Teachers should know the questions to ask so they can recognise whether such behaviours are prompted by potentially criminal activity that a child is seeing or experiencing at home or at school, or whether the child is simply copying actions they see in increasingly sexualised music videos, advertising, and internet content.’

She also warned that schools should tread carefully with children who are now interpreting such sexual behaviours due to their surroundings.

‘We don’t want kids being treated or labelled as deviants because they are copying behaviour they understand to be normal because they see it at home or on television.’

Dr Ey said that Australian schools are educating children about how to keep themselves safe but the level of education differs between states and territories.

“Educating children about how to identify inappropriate touching, declining invitations to touch others inappropriately, saying no when they feel uncomfortable, recognising coercion or bribes, recognising inappropriate secrets and reporting any of these to an educator or trusted adult – these are imperative to empowering children to keep themselves safe,” she said.

Protecting children from sexual abuse via ACT government

Some great tips to teach our children to be aware and stay safe include,
Make time to talk
Talk about what being safe means and what it feels like
Teach children that their body is theirs
Help your child to make a list of adults they feel safe with

Have clear boundaries for personal privacy in your home so that children learn this is a normal part of life.

This includes:
•respecting a child’s ‘no’ to being touched
•not making them kiss someone if they don’t want to. They might want to shake hands instead
•giving them privacy in the toilet or shower as long as it’s safe.

Safety in public places
Teach children to avoid risks away from home, including:
•not going off alone
•being alert to what’s going on around them
•running to where you are, or to a group of people, if a stranger approaches them.

If they walk to school, make sure they:
•always walk with others
•keep close to fences and away from the road
•go into the nearest shop or front yard of a house if they are scared. If really scared, knock on the door and ask the person to call home but don’t go inside.

Signs of sexual abuse
The main message from survivors is about the importance of paying attention to children’s behaviour. If children are being sexually abused, there may be physical signs such as bleeding from the vagina or anus (back passage), sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or poor hygiene.

However, signs in a child’s behaviour are more likely. These include:
•significant changes in behaviour, aggressive behaviour or regression (going back) to an earlier stage of development (for example, bedwetting)
•sexual behaviour that is not appropriate to the child’s age
•depression or social withdrawal
•getting into trouble at school (sometimes to avoid going home)
•self-harming behaviours (for example, self-mutilation, suicide attempts or prostitution).

Where to get help
•Child Protection Service – to report child abuse. Contact your local office or the DHS Child Protection Crisis Line on Tel. 131 278
•Police – to report the abuser
•Centres Against Sexual Assault Tel. 1800 806 292 (24 hours) – for support and counselling
•National Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence hotline Tel. 1800 737 732 (24 hours) – for support
Kids Help Line – 1800 55 1800
Parent Line – 1300 30 1300
Lifeline – 13 11 14

Remember
•Children are not responsible for sexual abuse.
•Sexual abuse is a crime.
•Children often talk about the abuse a little at a time.
•It is very common for survivors to repress memories of abuse.
•Sexual abuse is experienced by girls and boys. Children cannot stop sexual abuse.

5 basic principles we need to teach our children via Bravehearts (remember: it’s never too early to sow the seeds of personal safety) are:
1)  To trust their feelings and to distinguish between ‘yes’ and ‘no’ feelings
2)  To say ‘no’ to adults if they feel unsafe and unsure
3)  That they own their own bodies
4)  That nothing is so yucky that they can’t tell someone about it

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Read more: Why we need to teach our kids ‘Vagina,’ ‘Penis,’ and ‘Vulva’

School toilets to be put under guard to stop sexual assaults

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  • Where the hell did common sense go? You parent your children by teaching right from wrong, by teaching stranger danger, by always talking adult language, not by trying to analyse whether they are male or female. As a mother I was quite sure one of my children was not straight only to find out that it was a late development that occurred in late teenage years. None of us ‘knew’ until the final outcome – how much damage might have been done by this gender push that is now occurring.

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  • I can’t believe how much times have changed. I brought my boys up the way I was. This meant you treat others the way you’d like to be treated and never go anywhere with strangers. It’s scary to think what the young ones of today have to face.

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  • parents should talk to their children about keeping safe and the schools need to run education programs that teach the kids about this and how to be safe. It is such a tough subject to expect the teacher to be responsible for identifying it

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  • Parents should watch what their children watch and be responsible in their decisions. If there is something unsuitable during child viewing times (including childrens programs) report it to the TV Station concerned including the time.
    Sometimes I think children are taught too much about sex too young. About 28 years ago my niece was given sex education which was fairly graphic at school. She was 5 years old and it was in her first term at school. Her Mum had told he some basics about a baby as you do when there is going to be a new baby join the family but she considered she wasn’t old or mature enough to understand all the details and act responsibly apart from saying “no” if any one tried to touch her “private areas” including breasts. Her parents were horrifed and voiced the opinions about it at the school. A group of parents also requested a group meeting with the Principal and the Teacher involved. They found out afterwards that the Principal wasn’t impressed either. This happened at a Public School in SA.

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  • This is disgusting! Back when I was in primary school ‘sex’ was like a bad word, almost like swearing if you said it, it’s hard to believe how far we’ve come.

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  • This is indeed concerning and indicative of current life and society. Kids are exposed to so much more sexual behaviour and activity now than when I was a child so it is difficult to discern. However, teachers can’t be everything to everyone, nor should they be, so they can only report what they see and seek help from others in managing situations. Some of these raise eyebrows and are frightening, but it will always go back to the family situation and home life.

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  • This is very worrying and I agree that teachers need sufficient training to deal with such issues as this.

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  • Scary indeed !
    I sure think that television and computer are of impact.

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  • So scary that this is happening at all, let alone at such a young age.

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  • This is quite scary to read. What a big problem!!

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  • Such a young age which is a concern.

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  • So glad I had the childhood I did.

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  • God protect our kids

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